anger room
if ever there were a recession - proof business, the anger room is it .
with the anger room and it was awesome. both of the ladies on staff we
the use of an anger room may momentarily reduce the tension felt from the arousal of anger or ongoing hostility. as one cnn commentator reported, following her experience in an anger room, “i feel better. much better! ”
still, owning the anger room is not like running a hot dog stand, alexander said .
alexander considers the anger room a safe place where visitors can take out their frustrations without judgment .
mannequin parts are part of the landscape at the anger room. (louis deluca / staff photographer )
manager c. j. johnson documents the moment as kevin bowie vents his frustrations at the anger room .
diane casanova smashed objects during her recent session at the anger room in dallas, which opened in 2011 .
alexander said she conceived the idea of the anger room as a 16 - year - old living in chicago .
using an anger room may provide a quick fix. however, doing so robs us of the opportunities for greater self - reflection and understanding the complexity of our anger .
tough day at work? family stressing you out? come smash stuff at dallas' one and only anger room .
anger room sessions start at $ 25 for five minutes, $ 45 for 15 minutes and $ 75 for 25 minutes .
visitors can choose from various tools of destruction at the anger room. more such rooms for venting are opening around the world .
the calming satisfaction experienced in an anger room, saltz says, probably isn' t because you hit a random punching bag .
another early obstacle for both the anger room and the rage room was obtaining insurance. since it’s a new concept, ms. alexander says her insurer “literally had to create a category for my business. ”
a woman in texas has created an
anger room
where, for a price, you can destroy the room' s contents to release your anger. anna werner reports, then jeff glor and rebecca jarvis speak with dr. jennifer hartstein about the effectiveness of this service and ways to get out your anger - - productively .
citing privacy concerns, she asked that anger room’s exact location not be made public. but it is safe to say it’s located near one of the chief exporters of anger in the region — north central expressway .
bernard golden, ph. d. , is the founder of anger management education and author of overcoming destructive anger: strategies that work .
the aftermath of a session at the anger room, which charges $ 25 for five minutes of crushing printers, alarm clocks, glass cups, vases and the like. prices rise to about $ 500 for customized room setups .
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after purging themselves of destructive behaviors, break room customers leave their therapeutic session feeling refreshed. and unlike when you break a wine glass or send a saucer flying at home, you do none of the cleanup in an anger room .
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sessions in an anger room are meant to be therapeutic. but mental health professionals question the efficacy of rampaging in a faux cubicle or whacking airborne glasses .
marcia dykes had never been to the anger room before, but she signed up earlier in the week after reading about a place where people could wreck things .
between the election and the holiday season, the anger room has been busy. alexander had to introduce donald trump and hillary clinton mannequins out of popular demand .
the use of an anger room highlights the immediate rewards of destruction and reduced tension. it may offer a moment of pleasure rather than lasting understanding and skills .
he said people with anger issues may think of the anger room as an effective way to deal with them. “the fact is, they’re not going to solve their issues and there’s no one there who’s clinically trained, ” lennox said .
how to release anger at its root cause - dr. kim d' eramo
anger rooms are all the rage. timidly, we gave one a whack .
offers no insight regarding those feelings and thoughts that foster the arousal of anger .
customers have included executives at large corporations, including hilton and microsoft, ms. alexander says. in the first year, the anger room’s revenue was $ 170, 000. since then, she has received about 2, 500 inquiries from other aspiring anger - room entrepreneurs, and she is in the process of drafting a licensing agreement for franchisees .
donna alexander, owner of the anger room in deep ellum, first gives dykes a rundown of the safety rules and then walks her into a large warehouse - style room where a television, rolling chair, love seat, dresser and dinner plates await dykes' destruction .
it' s not therapy. it' s not anger management. the anger management that i teach my clients takes long - term therapy ,
stein said .
we are not doing very well expressing our emotions that help our stress. we always look for ways, and i think [ the anger room ] is like a guilty pleasure .
the anger room charges $ 25 for five minutes of crushing printers, alarm clocks, glass cups, vases and the like. prices rise to about $ 500 for custom room setups. the most expensive setup so far has been a faux retail store, replete with racks of clothing .
booked by accident because the website pulls up when you search for an anger or smash room, i put in portland oregon and it came up. the address is visually available at the b
people have some serious frustration built up ,
alexander said. she jokes she' s had access to the anger room for eight years but has only had to use it four times .
c. j. johnson, the anger room’s manager, didn’t dispute the criticism but said the staff emphasizes to patrons that the business is intended only as a fun way to deal with everyday irritations .
i brought the 5 mins for a friend and she had a blast. she left out her stress in a safe and healthy way. i would highly recommend the anger room. we will return !
you need anger management classes .
you need shut the fuck up classes .
offers no insight into the wounds or inner pain that can make us vulnerable to anger arousal .
hugo, a 24 - year - old retail salesman from dallas who asked that his last name not be used, paid $ 45 for 15 minutes inside the anger room and said it was worth every penny .
the average person tends to last two to three minutes in the anger room, according to alexander. about three minutes into her session, dykes slowed her momentum but kept going until her five minutes were up .
not worth $ 25 per person at all. just empty room with trash in it to break up for recycling .
according to the anger room website, sessions start out at the 5 - minute
i need a break
for $ 25 and go up to
total demolition ,
a 25 - minute session for $ 75 .
anger rooms are all the rage. timidly, we gave one a whack. - the new york times
instead of becoming the incredible hulk and destroying your own home, a dallas - based company offers the
anger room
as a place where paying customers can throw, beat or shatter everything around them in a controlled environment .
mitchell emerged from the destruction room breathing heavily and smiling, with a slight cut on his cheek caused by flying debris .
although i do agree with your analysis of these anger rooms, i believe that a critical point about anger is being over looked. that critical part of anger is the energy level which tends to get held up inside the human psyche, mind and soul. often that energy level compiles on top of other anger instances which we have been trained to bury deep inside & not show to anyone. sometimes physically releasing that anger by breaking things discharges the anger trapped inside us. allowing that energy vibration to leave the body. then it becomes easier to get the psyche and mind to the healthy place of sorting through issues, getting to the core reason for the anger, and make the healthier behaviors part of our life! getting ahead of the next situation which would normally trigger said trapped anger energy! perhaps using anger rooms along with psychological help, self awareness, cognitive behavior therapy, yoga, meditation, exercise, and many more beneficial techniques could create very healthy therapeutic process .
customers are fully decked out in safety goggles and helmets to protect themselves, but such courtesy isn’t extended to the objects in the room. anything inside the anger room is fair game to be smashed, to whatever heavy metal or angry rap soundtrack gets your blood pumping quickest. the graffiti on the wall reading “beast mode” should only serve to further inspire the your rage .
custom room arrangements start at $ 500. customers in the past have asked for office, kitchen and living room setups. special requests have ranged from balloons to pianos. one time, alexander watched a man re - enact an entire scene from a movie .
by contrast, cultivating healthy anger entails learning how to pause and reflect on rather than react to our anger. it requires patience, practice and commitment. it involves learning new habits by which to more constructively manage anger and a greater flexibility in being able to choose those strategies that might be most constructive for a given situation. healthy anger supports strengthening our rational mind in being able to see the bigger picture rather than being held hostage by our emotional mind .
mr. shew concurs that finding an appropriate space for an anger room is a challenge. retail districts are not well suited to it, he says. “we find that most people have an easier time with more of the industrial warehouse areas. ”
several other anger rooms have popped up around the world, including in houston, toronto, niagara falls and australia .
the anger room builds mock kitchens, living rooms and replicas of actual workplaces, and fills them with big - screen tvs, vcrs, fax machines, desks, potted plants - - the list is endless. customers then pay money to destroy them .
the anger room accepts donations for its rooms from residents and businesses in the dallas - fort worth area. its four employees also go out on bulk trash pickup days looking for crushable items. the employees build the rooms, filling them with the breakables, and do the postwreckage cleanup .
he recommends alternatives to reducing stress and anger such as controlled deep breathing, lowering expectations and the mindful practice of keeping things in perspective .
at the rage room in toronto, 45 minutes of destruction costs $ 19. 99 and includes video downloads of the sessions. customers bring their own music .
one such company, the break room, near atlanta, was in high demand for infuriated falcons fans after super bowl li, according to spokeswoman melanie mclean .
addressing old wounds that may make one vulnerable to anger arousal whether through self - help activities or seeking the help of a mental health professional .
the brains behind the operation is founder donna alexander. the 30 - year - old entrepreneur said she came up with the idea for the anger room when she was 16, but opened her first one in 2008 in her own garage. it was - - pardon the pun - - a smash hit .
nevertheless, customers of the anger room have paid to re - enact a scene from the movie “office space, ” in which the main characters, a trio of disgruntled computer programmers, beat a printer with a baseball bat. the company can also customize the workplace experience, recreating a customer’s own office .
before the customer arrives, the staff furnishes a so - called “destruction room” using surplus material donated by other businesses or just found by the side of the road .
to be certain that their business is not the source of anyone' s anger, staff members of the break room recycle what remains of the damaged goods. sourcing from restaurants, private suppliers and outside donors not only offers patrons a variety of choices for their tantrum, it gives one a sense of environmental stewardship .
besides setting up the room to look like a home or office, staff members can customize it for an additional fee. a popular option is the “glass special. ”
the american presidential election increased business at some anger rooms. stressed - out voters traveled all the way to toronto from new york before and after the election, says steve shew, co - founder of the rage room there. customers wrote the name of the candidate they were frustrated with on a plate and smashed it .
over the next few years while she looked for a suitable location for the company, ms. alexander accrued a four - month waiting list. in december 2011, she quit her job as a marketing manager for a steakhouse to officially start the anger room in a 1, 000 - square - foot space in downtown dallas .
at the anger room in dallas, mannequins of donald trump and hillary clinton were taking beatings before the election. customers demolished two clinton mannequins, requiring replacements. but trump attracted even more ire. “we’ve gone through at least three of the male mannequins that we have to dress up as donald trump, ” ms. alexander says .
in the movie classic pretty woman, edward (richard gere) amusingly declares to vivian (julia roberts) that it took him five years of psychoanalysis to state out loud, “i’m angry ,
with regard to his father. he clearly struggled with recognizing and acknowledging his anger. some would argue, therefore, that patients like edward should be encouraged to visit the anger room. however, there are a wide variety of clinical strategies to help clients access their emotions without acting on them .
staff members say the room has been rented for bachelorette and fraternity parties, and it has attracted customers from as far away as switzerland and from both u. s. coasts .
but she said most of her customers sign up to relieve job stress, not personal stress. and there are limits to how angry clients can get in the anger room. alexander said she has had to turn down people who asked to bring in chainsaws and machetes. she also advises them not to rip the wires out of the walls .
alexander actually came up with the idea a more than a decade ago, but didn’t launch her first anger room until 2008, out of her garage. the idea as abc news reports, hasn’t changed: at the time, friends would come over to take baseball bats to the old junk in the room. but when word caught on, the demand was too much to handle. “i had strangers showing up at my house, ” alexander said, “so i said, ‘i have to find a real legit place.' ”
hitting bobo dolls and punching or slamming a pillow against a wall were just a few of the many anger management strategies therapists offered patients in the ‘70’s. these activities were intended to help clients vent and get in touch with their anger. in part, the approach reflected the view that one should “let it all hang out .
a therapy session comes with three options: “i need a break” will give you a paltry five minutes in the anger room for $ 25. but you could always bump that up to the “lash out” session, where you get 15 minutes for $ 45. and for those nursing some serious rage, 25 minutes of “total demolition” will run you $ 75 .
the anger room is a safe facility where there is no judgement & no consequences. we allow you to come in, suit up and break our shit! all in the name of love, fun and perhaps therapy ;) although, we are not a medical or therapeutic establishment, we are here to give you a relieving experience as many times as you’d like, all while helping you become a more productive human being. we all need to lash out at one point in time during our lives, just to keep sane, so why not do it safely with us and eliminate the severe consequences you would have if you did it anywhere else! welcome to anger room, feel free to safely lash out without judgement or consequences .
research, however, has ultimately concluded that repeatedly engaging in such activities might best be described as “rehearsal ,
thus making one more prone to engage in such activities. this perspective is further supported by recent neuroscience research, which finds that the repetition of certain thoughts, feelings or behavior, trains the brain to make it more likely to engage those thoughts, feelings and behavior. so while using an anger room may provide a temporary decrease in physical tension associated with anger and other feelings, it may increase the likelihood of future acting out .
for anger room staff, it’s all part of a day’s work. while mitchell attacked the chair, johnson leaned against a doorway talking nonchalantly on a cellphone. on the other side of the inch - thick observation window, an employee sat at the reception desk working at a laptop. alexander talked to a man who wandered in to offer his services as a window washer .
the clientele that head through the anger room’s door is split between men and women, most looking to relieve job stress, alexander says. though she admits some of the women come to take out relationship stress on alexander’s mannequins. “put pictures on them, write on them, and then they try to beat the crap out of them, ” she told a dallas tv station .
the wrecking club is not the first rage - based enterprise. last fall, politics drove the business at the anger room, which opened in dallas in 2008. clients showed up by the hundreds to batter human effigies of hillary clinton and donald j. trump. three trump mannequins and two clintons were utterly destroyed, according to the owner, donna alexander, and had to be replaced .
and at least half of her clients are women, from mothers blowing off steam after a stressful day with the kids to ladies with relationship problems who take their anger out on mannequins .
rather, being prone to anger really reflects habits of thinking, feeling and behavior. these habits may make one vulnerable at any given moment. this is especially true as overly intense anger is very much related not only to the current triggering event but to past events as well. and, individuals can effectively change these habits through committed engagement with the strategies listed above .
she was 16 at the time. now, at 34, she' s created a trademarked business in dallas that' s also heading to las vegas. just eight years ago, alexander started the anger room in her two - car garage on ross avenue. she charged people five bucks a session. most of her first clients were friends but as word spread, strangers started to arrive .
the rage room’s “date night package” is its most popular offering, mr. shew says. and a favorite activity for couples is for one person to throw a cup in the air for their date to smash .
alexander said she doesn' t pretend this environment is a legitimate mental health treatment. but to her critics, who have said the anger room is dangerous or glorifies violence, she said ,
you can' t tell me that you have never been angry before. you can' t tell me that. if you haven' t ever felt like that maybe you are the crazy one .
“although it’s appealing to think that expressing anger can reduce stress, there is not much evidence of that, ” says george m. slavich, a clinical psychologist and director of the laboratory for stress assessment and research at the university of california, los angeles. “on the contrary, the types of physiological and immune responses that occur during anger can actually be harmful for health. ”
hi cody, thanks for reading my blog. i believe that many people, including some in the counseling field, still view anger through the metaphor of a steam kettle accumulating energy that needs to escape. using this lens would imply the need to vent in order to help alleviate it. this metaphor, however, is no longer viewed as an effective one for understanding anger .
for a recent divorcee, whom the break room gets a lot of, the one - time experience could provide short - term relief .
it' s almost so unacceptable that it' s exciting ,
mclean said .
anger is a natural emotion that offers us invaluable information—if we take the time to explore it. anger stems from some perceived threat. additionally, it is almost always a reaction to and distraction from some form of inner suffering that might include feelings such as shame, fear, powerlessness, self - doubt, and inadequacy as well as feelings of betrayal or diminishment. and, when fully explored, it is also about some key desire that may feel challenged or thwarted–such as a desire for connection, validation, trust, or safety. as such, every moment engaged in anger is a temporary reprieve from some form of inner pain .
the author of multiple books on stress including
the mayo clinic handbook for happiness: a four - step plan for resilient living ,
sood said the need for anger rooms could be a sign of the times .
we all have those days. you know, the ones where you want to take the nearest heavy object and hurl it at the nearest breakable one? sadly, it’s not quite socially acceptable to send shards of plastic or glass flying around the room. and most of us don’t have a stockpile of things to smash to bits, nor the time or patience to deal with the cleanup afterwards. enter a texas entrepreneur to solve your anger problems, no psychiatrist required .
staff members have catered to other special requests — one customer wanted balloons, another (for reasons employees could never figure out) wanted the room filled with plastic bags. in december, someone brought in a christmas tree and some gift - wrapped boxes .
the rage room grew out of a business called battle sports, a staging ground for a sport known as archery dodge ball. after the expansion, “there was a huge, huge uptick in website traffic, ” mr. shew said. specifically, web visits have jumped to 1, 200 from about 400 a day. revenue has also increased, and the company has fielded many inquiries from prospective rage room franchisees. so far, it has granted licenses to a handful of them for $ 1, 000 .
we' ve all experienced those moments of stress or anger when you' re so mad that you just want to break something. but can acting on those impulses help relieve the stress and tension we feel in those moments ?
i was happy to read this article! i do a lot of anger management work as a counselor and i often talk about how venting or
letting it all out
when we' re angry can actually be counterproductive .
[ advisers ] thought it would be a trend like something that would be hot right now, but then it would fizzle. they' d always tell me,' you need to strike while it' s hot, because after a while it' s going to die out and no one is going to know what the anger room is,'
alexander said .
well, that was 2011. and it' s 2016 and we still have the same fire .
growing up on the south side of chicago, alexander saw friends go to jail for slashing tires or destroying property. she thought she could help the next friends avoid jail time by having a place where they could hammer their anger away .
keep emailing and they haven' t contacted us back! total rip off! need to report them and if we don' t get out money back! ! so many for getting our anger out! just pissed us off even more .
most of the people i work with need to develop skills to de - escalate and resolve anger without using aggression. i have become more convinced that this is a mis - conception that people in counseling field should be educated about. thanks for sharing !
“if a person wants to go in and bust up things for fun, well, ok. but i’m not a fan of that as anger management, ” said scott lennox, a counselor in behavioral health at baylor all saints medical center of fort worth .
“they’d have an old chair in the office that people could take a tennis racket to. it didn’t work, ” he said. “for people with those sorts of problems, it’s not going to release anger, it’s going to make it a habit. ”
for fees ranging from $ 25 to $ 75, visitors to the north dallas facility are ushered into a protected space that can be decorated like a living room, kitchen or office. they are then invited to break up the furnishings with a baseball bat, hammer or blunt object of their choice .
he disappeared into the destruction room and attacked a chair, a laptop, an egg crate and a sports trophy with a bat, a hammer and — later — a piece of lumber from the pulverized chair. the hammer slammed against the walls, while hard rock blasted over the loudspeaker. pieces of the wood went flying .
start - up costs for such a business are modest, mr. shew says. “all you’re doing is just setting up the room, reinforcing the walls, giving them a bat and crowbar, getting some smashing items and they just go in there, ” he says. add to that providing protective gear, obtaining insurance and finding a suitable spot for the business .
the rage room, which first opened in toronto in 2015, now has licensees in budapest, singapore, australia and britain. “we’ve helped a lot of angry couples, ” said stephen shew, the owner. (his date - night package, $ 70 for two electronic devices and 20 items of crockery, from lawn gnomes to ceramic vases, is wildly popular on valentine’s day. )
it comes closer to their fantasy. it' s not the bag; iit' s their husbands head .
and while it may feel good in the moment to deliver a make believe blow to your husband' s head, the next time you feel the same anger, it might not be so easy to hold back that impulsive feeling .
anger rooms have become all the rage for the high - strung person who needs a
safe space
to blow off some steam. when counting to 10, taking deep breaths or the sage advice to
take a chill pill
doesn' t suppress your wrath, a controlled environment to get the aggression out of your system might do the trick .
the vibe and aesthetic of the wrecking club is part cbgb’s basement circa 1977, part stasi interrogation room. each room is clad in pocked cement and plywood for maximum “smash effect, ” as mr. daly put it. drywall, he pointed out, wouldn’t be hard enough to break stuff against. hanging on an entry wall is a still photograph from the cult turn - of - the - millennium movie “office space”: the beloved printer - smashing scene. the rooms have been lightly embellished in black and orange spray paint by derrick gutierrez, a graffiti artist who is also mr. daly’s fedex delivery guy. “he tagged the place as if it were a bridge, ” mr. daly said admiringly. “i wanted it to have a brooklyn - in - the - 1990s vibe. i think he crushed it. ”
such an experience may provide immediate satisfaction. however, i strongly feel the need to voice my opposition to adding it to the menu of strategies for the constructive management of anger. i might be “old school” but i have trouble seeing participating in such rooms as the equivalent to the benefits of getting a massage, going for a run, or participating in yoga .
safety, of course, is a top priority, and everyone must abide by the rules of engagement. protective gear including shoe covers, goggles and a helmet must be worn at all times, and guests who are intoxicated or pregnant are not permitted to participate. but when it comes to limitations on the amount of rampaging one can do, mclean said ,
there' s nothing you can' t do in there. the room is indestructible .
anger can alter the body' s chemistry and conjure a recognizable physical response. to combat that heightened state, dr. gail saltz, a professor of clinical psychiatry at new york presbyterian hospital weill - cornell medical college, recommends finding practical ways to calm yourself .
things that reduce high emotional states could range from things like deep breathing, muscle relaxation, using visual imagery or stepping back to take a mindfulness moment .
for those who would rather act out at home, the online marketplace presents an armory’s worth of what are known as therapy tools. foam anger bats, for example, start at about $ 10. at the high end, a pair of well - padded, cherry - red canvas, german - made, jumbo encounter bats cost about $ 210 and look like something the performance artist leigh bowery might have designed as a special kind of evening wear .
there were some early setbacks, like the time a couple destroyed mr. daly’s laptop. he had left it in the room after showing the two a safety video and did not think to tell them it wasn’t part of their package. “all i can say is, ‘thank god for the cloud, ’” he said, shaking his head. “i didn’t tell the customers what they’d done, because i didn’t want them to feel bad. ” but new customers will see that some areas and objects in the rooms are now marked with an x for “please don’t smash. ”
i can' t afford a psychiatrist, but i can afford this ,
he said, as he crushed a large tv with a baseball bat .
i had strangers showing up at my house so i said i have to find a real legit place ,
alexander said .
which was easier said than done. alexander said it took her three years to find a landlord who would put up with the mess. she set up shop in a dallas strip mall and started advertising, mostly online. before long, customers were lining up make appointments, sign waivers, put on safety gear and choose a soundtrack, such as eminem or gloria gaynor' s
i will survive ,
to prepare them for destruction. the rooms are filled with discarded junk alexander and her staff pick up from people' s garages .
the only time i think someone might need a shrink is - - we have a 25 - minute session. nobody last 25 minutes ,
alexander said .
alexander said most of her customers are
normal 9 - to - 5' ers .
we get a lot of high - level executives, people who own their own businesses, they come from all walks of life ,
she said .
[ they ] put pictures on them, write on them and then they try to beat the crap out of them ,
alexander said .
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if the hulk - style stress relief isn’t enough, they’ll plop you in a massage chair post - smash session to work out the rest of the kinks. all that venting, after all, can be quite hard work .
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“there’s a lot of people who are stressed out when the economy’s good; but when it’s bad, there’s an increased frustration out there, ” said owner donna alexander. “we’ve been getting a lot of business. ”
“i saw a lot of fighting in my neighborhood, and i thought, wouldn’t it be great if there was someplace where people could have a way to get these things out. ”
in 2008, while she was working at a dallas restaurant, she let friends and family try out the idea in her garage. she opened for business about six months ago .
“i’m not sure people enjoy breaking the glass so much — i think they just like the noise, ” said employee james pruitt .
“the holidays do seem to be a time of stress, ” alexander said .
employees said customers tend to be 20 to 35 years old and evenly divided between the sexes. men tend to express frustrations about their jobs; women about their personal lives. children, pregnant women and pets are barred .
the business’s website — urltoken — includes a disclaimer noting that the business is for entertainment and not therapy .
don hafer, director of behavioral health at texas health presbyterian hospital dallas, said the concept — called “catharsis” — enjoyed popularity among psychologists in the 1960s .
“we don’t suggest it as actual therapy. if people really have problems, we would suggest to them that they get professional help, ” johnson said .
it took her almost three years to find a landlord who would agree to rent her space. and she has to carry about $ 2 million in liability insurance .
“we had one guy call and ask how he could get here directly from d / fw airport, ” johnson said .
the business has been mentioned on abc news and in the new york times and the huffington post. alexander said officials from another tv network have expressed interest in taping a reality show there .
alexander said she plans to grow the business, expanding into a larger space and licensing the idea in other cities. so far, she said, she has received 180 inquiries .
one of the customers on a recent day was taylor mitchell, a 22 - year - old texas tech student, whose mother bought him a 15 - minute session for $ 45 .
he signed a three - page release and donned gloves, a hard - hat and goggles .
after taking a business card from the window washer, alexander expressed admiration that mitchell was using up his allotted 15 minutes .
“usually after a couple of minutes, they’re out of breath, ” she said. “it’s rare someone purchases a 25 - minute session, and when they do, they never go the full 25 minutes. never. i think if they did, we would ask if we could recommend the name of some psychological help. ”
“i feel great, ” he said. “it was always about fun — and maybe a little about frustrations. ”
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finally, in the fall of 2008, and by then living in dallas, ms. alexander began an experiment. she invited current and past co - workers to her garage to pulverize items she had collected from the curbs in her neighborhood. “i would play music on my laptop and just let them have at it, ” she says. she charged $ 5. soon, word of the stress - relief sessions spread throughout dallas .
“i started getting strangers at my door asking if my house was the place to break stuff, ” ms. alexander said. “when that happened, i knew i had a business. ”
mr. slavich recommends stress - reduction techniques that can be incorporated into daily life, such as mindfulness - based stress reduction, meditation and cognitive behavior therapy .
“you have a desk with a computer and phone, chair and a mannequin dressed up in a suit, uniform or whatever relates to their real - life issue, ” ms. alexander says .
customers are provided with protective equipment that includes a helmet, goggles, boots and gloves. and they can pick out a music soundtrack — including classical, r & b, grunge and heavy metal — and an array of objects to swing .
“some of our typical options are baseball bats, golf clubs, two - by - fours, ” ms. alexander says. “we get things like metal pipes, mannequin arms and legs, skillets, legs from tables. sledgehammers, crowbars and things like that. ” off - limits are sharp objects and those that use ammunition .
“people really love that, ” mr. shew says. “i guess because it has a bit of a teamwork element to it. ”
in the first several years, ms. alexander struggled to find a permanent space. the company’s first location was near texas instruments, which became a source of breakables. but after the first year, the business outgrew the space. over the next four years, it moved three times .
the reporter penelope green takes a metal bat to a television at the wrecking club in the garment district of manhattan. she found it difficult to destroy .
smashing things may not seem at first blush to be a winning idea to wrap a business around. since march, however, nearly 1, 500 people have shown up to break housewares, electronics and furniture at the wrecking club, two reinforced rooms in the basement of a building in the garment district of manhattan .
many of this number are couples looking for something more piquant than the usual date - night fare, said tom daly, the wrecking club’s proprietor. but rage is not confined to matrimony and other romantic unions, as mr. daly has also found .
“that’s the cool thing about addressing an instinct, ” he said on a recent steamy afternoon. “everyone’s got it. ”
there is no such cosseting at the wrecking club. the bats and crowbars are solid metal. a starter session costs $ 30 for 30 minutes with two or three electronic devices and a bucket of dishes. a menu of add - ons — advertised on a white board like daily specials at a restaurant — includes boxes of dishes ($ 20 for one box; two for $ 35); laptops ($ 15); computer monitors ($ 20); cellphones ($ 5); and large - screen tvs ($ 25). the most requested items are laptops, monitors, printers and extra dishes. (mr. daly estimates he runs through about 60 to 70 electronic devices each week. )
finding these materials is one of his biggest challenges. companies going out of business are an irregular source. sometimes people donate things, mr. daly said, adding that everything smashed at the wrecking club is properly recycled .
a year or so ago, mr. daly, 29, was bored with his finance job in stamford, conn. he quit before it was too late, he said, “to do something really cool. ” a cheerful, fresh - faced guy wearing a backward black baseball cap, blue polo shirt and blue linen pants, mr. daly has happy memories of demolishing a swing set in his parents’ backyard, at their request, after he and his siblings had left home, and these sparked his imagination. “it was more fun than playing on the swing set, ” he said. “the memory stayed with me and that’s what made me think about breaking things. ”
a computer monitor is attacked by a crowbar - wielding client of the wrecking club .
mr. daly is keeping the building’s location a secret (after you sign up for a session online, your confirmation email contains the address): not to protect his landlords, but to maintain the atmosphere of a speakeasy .
close - toed shoes are required, and long pants and long sleeves suggested. customers who are visibly drunk or stoned will be turned away and their deposit forfeited. mr. daly provides safety goggles, hard hats, work gloves and black nylon smocks .
he seemed surprised when this reporter arrived alone. “it’s just more fun with two, ” he said. but inviting a new boyfriend to what surely constitutes end - stage relationship behavior did not appeal (i was not eager to fast - track into martha and george territory). and breaking crockery seemed too intimate an activity to share with even an old friend .
indeed, there are two things that propel people into the wrecking club, mr. daly said. “one is to have some fun, and the other is to work something out. ”
i ordered a monitor, a large flat - screen tv, a chair and a box of dishes. mr. daly said that most customers play music, and i looked to dina litovsky, the photographer who had accompanied me to document the proceedings, for assistance. “metallica, obviously, ” she said, and cued up the thrash anthem “ battery ” on her phone .
in a corner were a metal bat and a long crowbar. dina and i were stymied by the heat — the air - conditioning wasn’t working — and our goggles kept fogging up as our eyes stung with sweat. i picked up a bat, approached the tv, and, then, i am ashamed to say, i hit the thing like a girl. minor crack. james hetfield of metallica barked and howled: “hungry violence seeker, feeding off the weaker. ” really, it was embarrassing. i pined for something more jolly; blondie’s “heart of glass, ” say, or that very satisfying carrie underwood song in which she crows about demolishing her cheating ex’s car with a bat and a set of keys .
“most people are hesitant at first, ” mr. daly said. “they’re a little timid. they say, ‘can i break that? ’ i’m like, ‘yeah, you can break that. ’ usually after the first hit, they go crazy. ”
i found a bit of a rhythm, finally, with my bat, and systematically worked my way over the tv screen — pop, pop, pop — until the floor sparkled with black glass. i stifled an urge to ask for a dustpan and broom .
mr. daly has learned a thing or two about human nature in the last few months .
“from my very humble and limited education, i think that part of what’s going on here is that breaking stuff gives people back their edge, ” he said. “it lets people take their power back. imagine getting fired. it sucks. it’s defeating. or you got dumped, or you didn’t get into the college you wanted, or imagine whatever it is that makes you feel weak. this is a place where you can get back your power. ”
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n site was down, and that they were showing up on google without the city or state crossed off like normal websites have happen to them .
ment in the response that i got from the company :
we as a business can' t refund those who purchased things from our site on their own .
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i just got back from my session today. i loved it! ! it' s a great way to vent your frustratio
for us and for our 12 year old on her birthday. this was the same day we had a court appearance
could be dangerous too if there would have bee full party of 5. really was just 2 of us busting stuff up
anger room is a business in dallas , texas that rents out rooms furnished with common objects that people can then destroy . it was opened in december 2011 by donna alexander . 
anger room is a business in dallas, texas that rents out rooms furnished with common objects that people can then destroy. it was opened in december 2011 by donna alexander.
anger room is a business in dallas, texas that rents out rooms furnished with common objects that people can then destroy. it was opened in december 2011 by donna alexander.