she hate me
she hate me is a 2004 comedy - drama film directed by spike lee .
well she hate me a lot and i know why she hates me because i am failure. i want to escape .
she hate me
is just as tongue - tied as its ridiculous title .
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title drop: armstrong reveals that he nicknamed fatima
she hate me
after their breakup .
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she hate me can' t decide if it wants to be a commentary on corporate greed or a sex farce .
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spike lee' s she hate me is about as awful as a film can be without being the ultimate awful, which is boring .
tighter focus would have incited the fury that she hate me' s ambition demands. it' s left saying too much but not enough .
azalea continued :
people already hate me enough. i do not need to be hated any more .
i’ll definitely keep that idea of doing more of what they hate in mind .
the best way to silence the haters is to do more of what they hate .
my issue is with my big sister. for years we’ve had a bad relationship. but as we’ve grown older it’s got worse. she constantly putting me down, bullying me, if i speak up im bad. she’s done much over the years that i can no longer forgive her. she likes to keep me out in the cold, gang up on to me and disrespect me. she is truly an awful person. she thinks she’s right all the time, not prepared to listen to others. she has no respect towards me and i’m the mug who always helps her out. but i can’t forgive get any more. i don’t like telling her anything ad she likes to sabotage everything. she’s become spiteful, resentful and full of hate towards me. she’s so used to getting awsy with what she does to her it’s normal. but i can no longer forgive her. she’s enjoyed talking about me to everyone then behaves as if she hasnt. she keeps telling me i’m fat, i feel so inhibited to go out because she makes digs. i feel so unappreciated. she’s never supported me with anything in life. it’s always me helping her .
your writing really resonated with me. criticism is self - hate turned outward and i absolutely love your advice to give your haters more of what they hate! that is exactly what i will do! thank you .
but isn' t that better than the way most films answer more questions than they raise ?
she hate me
invites anger and analysis about the stereotypes it appears to celebrate; a film that attacked those stereotypes would inspire yawns. think what you want on an politically correct level, but concede that
she hate me
is audacious and recklessly risky .
my grandparents gave me my first bottle in the hospital. they brought me home, and treated me as their daughter. four years later, they adopted me .
she cared for you and that’s the only reason she tried to protect you all this while .
i can totally relate because my grandmother is like this mainly to me and secondary to me. these people are some dumb, narcissistic, superficial, and honestly i hate them .
party on indeed, betsy! like they say, “let the haters hate. ” if being “too positive” is the issue, then by all means keep giving them more of what they hate !
in an interview about the book (available here), moyes was asked whether she knew a quadriplegic before she wrote the book. she replied :
give them more of what they hate, which is coincidentally, more of what your vips love .
giving haters more of what they hate is genius. i never thought about it that way before .
i have horrible sister. she never make me feel connection as sisters. i tried hard to be close to her unfortunately she never appreciate it. she uses me when she needs me and left me alone when i needed her most. i tried to cut her off and to move on with my life but i couldn’t do it some how some reason i want her to keep as a sister and when she treats me badly i i regret why i allow her to be in my life
my mother brought me up calling me stupid a peice of s * * * * * she allowed older sister to beat the h * * put of me and told me to shut up she has pmt. . she allowed brother to rape and abuse me... it was all my fault apprently the day she spat on me kicked me into a ball was end i still long for a mum and don' t understand why i was hated and abused... people need pet licences but anyone can have kid. . crazy
sometimes it gets so bad that i just avoid her a few days. i wish we didn´t live so close. i feel hate, which bothers me, because your not supposed to hate your mother. i´ve even thought about killing myself to punish her…isn´t that awful .
incidentally, i’m also the closest person to her. the culture she lives in is not friendly at all, and shes also very reserved (i’m much more outgoing) so she has no real friends and only talks to the housekeepers. she can only tell meaningful things to me, which she does over the phone. she also controls the phone schedule so i cant call her more or less than she wants or she lashes out .
in
she hate me
( 2004), a successful young executive (anthony mackie) facing a financial crisis finds a lucrative calling: becoming a sperm donor to lesbians. price: $ 10, 000 .
the reason i am the happy person i am today is because of the maternal love of a a widowed neighbor. she was there for me and gave me the gift of acceptance. she told me my life had meaning and i deserved to be happy. she was my best friend, role model, and more. she wasn’t famous in life but was one person who didn’t have to care but did. she was the most important person in the world to me .
anyway, i’m glad to see that you are saying that there’s nothing wrong with us ourselves feeling upset and sometimes not being able to hide our own hurt. i knew this of course theoretically but she is so forceful that she can half convince me and also convince all the people around her that the problem is me, and not her (the poor older victim). she has actually managed to turn a few people against me this way who never had the chance to get to know me or even meet me themselves, so that the time she disappeared for nearly 2 years and i was so worried about her (she has injuries) that i called up someone near her to tell me if she were okay, he lashed out at me himself and told me all the garbage she had convinced him about me, even though he’s only ever said “hi” to me a couple of times in the past and doesn’t know me at all .
lou seems to rub her nose a lot. then later says she rubs it when she lies. was she lying when she said she enjoyed the classical music concert then? that doesn’t make sense and is an irrelevant detail unless it is bring used as a plot device to show she’s lying. and she doesn’t seem to be lying about enjoying the concert. so why bother to put that detail in ?
their hate has nothing to do with how they feel about you, it’s a reflection about how they feel about themselves .
but, in chinese culture, if i do not go to meet with them in this “family gathering. ” which means i do not give them “the face”; they may hate me or cause me problems in the future ?
i’m only 14 and yet my mom is very very very mean to me. she acts crazily when imake a little mistake nod she makes me panic i have low self esteem nd on top of that when i need a shoulder to cry on no one is there for me i feel lonely nd scared my family is soooo mean to me
this really made no difference to me. my parents were the people raising me, not the people who gave birth to me. it was just a fact .
my brother is several years younger than me. everything he does is “right”. she even once told me that all i do is bad and all he does is good. i am over 50 now and nothing has changed. i live next door to her which makes matters worse. i see her every day. when she wants something she will act nice. if i let her down she is the “wicked witch next door”! example, “doris help me pull out weeds in the garden. ” “no. not today mom, i have some errands to run. ” she won´t talk to me for two days. she doesn´t like being alone and she hates going on vacation alone with my dad. for 15 years straight my husband and children went on vacation with my mother and father, just to keep her satisfied. one year, we did go alone without her and my dad and she had a fit. she does not remember this. she doesn´t remember a lot of things she did to me. she will only stuff my ears full of all the good things she did .
she was amazing. she laughed at all my jokes; she even helped me stand up against the bullies. my mom told me to simply ignore them because they were just jealous. although she was probably right, there was no other comforting offered. just a lot of physical hugs and kisses (on the mouth), which i had come to despise .
she only loved you. she was always protective of you that’s the reason why she would always check about garbage and all. she really cared about you. she was emotional that’s why she didn’t look rational to you. you have always done things your way. whatever you wanted to do you did, you had many broken relationships with which you are ok, but blaming your mother .
my father has alzheimer’s, but still knows who i am and is always happy to see me. she now won’t let me speak to him on the phone or visit him .
i’m tired, just so tired of my mom not letting me do anything. like she won’t even let me use a razor to shave my legs as she so scared i’d cut myself. she won’t let me talk to boys, won’t let me have a license, if i try and make friends she has to make it look obvious that she doesn’t want me to talk to them and she’ll say “we’re busy we need to go” it makes me so frustrated. i remember one time i wanted to sleep over someone’s house, this was farely recent and they called her to say i’m staying over and my mom has the nerve to say “yeah, she won’t want to do that” when i did. this person said i was keen on sleeping over and my mom was shocked. it’s like she expects me to be this anxious person who won’t want to do anything away from her. like i want to do things sometimes away from her and explore things. i don’t know why my mom expects me or thinks i’m an anxious person like she is. she thinks i’m just like her when i’m not. i have my own personality and my own interests. i’m just fed up with it. also she tries to guilt me out of something or make me scared not to do something she afraid of me doing or doesn’t want me to do. it took me so long to realise that and when i did and confronted her on it she denied it obviously and tried to again say all the reasons why we shouldn’t get or do something. i don’t know why she does this and i’m to the point i just want to leave and do what i want to do .
it was the car she gifted you, and you wanted to accuse her of stealing the car after she gave you. she gave it to you for your better grades, for your better future .
i was smart, i knew once she put the car in my name she couldn' t take it from me. i was 18, and if she did take it, i could report it stolen. getting the car in my name changed me, although i didn' t realize it at the time .
hi i need some advice. i currently live with my mom because of some financial issues, but it is a nightmare. i’m 24 years old and a i have a 4 year old son, which my husband and i adore and do everything we can do dor him. i have problems with my mom, because she constanstly tells me i shouldn’t have any more kids, i don’t take care of him right. it hurts me so much, i try so hard sometimes not to say anything back but i get so angry. i don’t want to have a bad relationship with my mom but i hate that i’m always angry and cry in my room like a child because of the horrible things she tells me. she does help me at all when it comes to disciplineing my child she makes it worse. she gets him out of timeout when he is in trouble because she sais she is the grandma and what she goes. i don’t know what to do anymore. i have tries talking to her and she doeant take me seriously, her sisters have talked to her and she dismisses what they say. please help me with some advice .
my mom is so controlling of my life, she has to tell me what i can and can’t say, what i can and can’t do and even who she approves of me to see. she’s also extremely overprotective of me and i absolutely despise it. if she’s not around me and i’m around other people she expects them to care for me as if they were caring for a 2 - 3 year old. she demands them to watch me like a hawk, and is offended when they don’t. “they should care for you properly” she’s acting like i’m a young child, when i’m not. she also portrays me to be this timid crybaby type of person who can’t survive a day without her. whereas i’m an outgoing pretty confident type of person. she has told people that i don’t understand things and portrays me to be this incompetent dumb person, when she knows very well i’m not like that at all. she also has people believing that i can’t go to a place i want to go to and every time i tell her about it or say it would be nice to go there she gets so angry and says “don’t let anyone know about this” it’s like i have to keep this secret and i don’t want to, i shouldn’t have to hide things that make me happy. i’m so tired of this. i feel suffocated almost and tied down. its my life at the end of the day, not hers. but she’s making my life all about her and what she wants for me. she wants to control my entire life and i just really don’t want to be around her anymore .
they have given me grief all my life, they will never ever talk to me again. my sisters and brother refuse to have anything to do with me and my children .
my friend with the difficult father ultimately decided she could only spend an hour or so with him every few months. she realized she could not include him in family events or have him interact with her children. she had to create very strict personal and emotional boundaries with him .
6). it is all about me – always! my children are just inferior imitations of their mother and me anyways .
mom admitted she mistreated me, but excused herself with ,
i was lucky to survive my childhood .
she still hasn' t called, hasn' t visited. it' s up to her .
azam mirza, 24, a muslim from manchester, attended the vigil with a homemade placard that read, “hate no one. love everyone. ”
“that’s so much bull, ” davis retorted after hearing what crawford said, according to bette and joan: the divine feud by shaun considine. “when miss crawford wasn’t nominated, she immediately got herself booked on the oscar show to present the best director award. then she flew to new york and deliberately campaigned against me. she told people not to vote for me. she also called up the other nominees and told them she would accept their statue if they couldn’t show up at the ceremonies. ”
hi shola this is how i’ve felt since school and now as an adult i often wonder why i let haters hate me for the person i’m not (the front i show them) rather than the real me and my real talents. this post just sums me up and i just can’t push myself enough to do one of the things that makes me happy because i’m to scared of being judged! baffling !
thank you for sharing! i thought i was the only one going through this. i still don' t know what to do as my dad died and my mother is not well anymore. however she is still very controlling. i am divorced and live with her to help take care of her but it seems i can' t do anything right. she also doesn' t allow me to have a live of my own. it' s just work and back home for me. she goes with me to do errands and when ever i am invited somewhere she finds a reason for me not to go. often claiming theres housework to do or just telling me no i cannot go n putting down my friends. even her own family and friends have noticed this and when they tell her i need time for my self she claims they are jealous or trying to lead me astray. i am fed up yet i feel obligated to her because she worked hard to get me through school n provide for me and bc she 3 the only parent i hv left .
at one point, she showed me all the months i had “missed. ” on every one, she wrote something like “please god, don’t let it be so” in large red letters at the bottom of the month .
ditto. took me awhile to accept this fact though. i only have 1 sister so i think that’s why i tolerated her abuse all these years. she’s older than me, but i’m the responsible one. i work, i own my own home, etc. she’s dysfunctional in every aspect of life. she’s an unemployed alcoholic who blames everyone for her problems .
thank you i really needed to hear this. i am 55 and i really hate my mother. she remarried 6 mos after my wonderful father passed away as a kid i was overwhelmed with a step father and 4 step siblings, then they had one together. i am the only child left from her ” love of her life” who was my father, but if he was how could she marry so quickly? i hate her so much and all her attention goes to ‘their child’ and yet she says outloud she does not love her husband nor loves his kids…she constantly makes desions that include them not me. how do you deal with this, they are 88 and 91 his kids did squat for years until they got sicker and for the last 15 yrs its been me who has been there for both of them whether i like him or not. i do it for my mom. is it wrong for me to not want to see nor talk to her anymore? she is totally abusive verbally and never wants to talk about anything she just hangs up so talking is not the answer…. he hates me, she hates his kids who have no idea as they all live out of the area .
it seemed to me that she knew that would be hurtful arrangements and assumed that i would participate in the very hurtful arrangements. i said i love her and respect her right to make her own decisions, but that i wasn’t consulted about the plans she announced, and that she should respect my right to not participate in plans that she knows would be painful for me. that was it—a big email from her saying how i was refusing to see her and that her dad is understanding and wouldn’t do that. (yet she once told me that he’d tell her to come in (from four hours away) and not see me - that she could do it the next time she came in. and that she should see only one parent each time she visits — which, by the way, may be a total of twice a year. and that if she insisted on trying to see both parents when she was in town, he wanted it 50 - 50 .) ex is now also apparently driving to see her once a month - to help her around the house. big change from his own house–there are stories .
the last half of my freshman year, my mom told me if i was good, and brought up my gpa, she' d put the car in my name and let me drive it my sophomore year .
in a tweet after the concert, she expressed her sorrow for the victims .
iggy azalea has claimed that she is glad she didn' t win the grammy award for best rap album this year as it would only fuel her haters .
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ten minutes into she hate me i knew it was a bad film, 20 minutes in i knew it was offensively - - to its audience - - poor, 30 minutes in i began to wonder how it was that the producers hadn' t pulled the plug on it when they saw the rushes .
i know that this doughter is steeling money & her father s house away from her father just too get the money she wants too divorce her great husbend & fley the state! i know what she has in mind but her own father s too blind too see what she rely is doing. she did something bad years ago but her own father dosnt care what she dose he thinks she’s the queen of his own house but he can’t see what she rely is. i think she rely is trying too chet her own father too sine pepers over too her soo she can chet him out of his own money but he can’t see that! his wife say don’t do it pete that’s his name his doughter is ona !
from its early image of a $ 3 bill bearing the smiling visage of george w. bush and an enron watermark, “she hate me, ” which was co - written by lee and actor - playwright michael genet, announces it’s as much a movie of the moment as the political docus presently flooding forth .
it’s hard for me to convey how much i hate jojo moyes’ supposedly romantic novel me before you, and dread the movie that is due out later this year. it is the story of a romance between a wealthy play boy become quadriplegic and his carer, although it’s a romance with a twist .
if i had kids, my kids would hate me ,
winfrey added .
they would have ended up on the equivalent of the' oprah' show talking about me; because something [ in my life ] would have had to suffer and it would' ve probably been them .
tanya: i’m disabled through severe me and a wheelchair user, and was surprised when people went out of their way to recommend this book to me. i mean, what message is that sending me? ?
most recently my niece was married and although they were both looking at my social media, really stalking no invitation was extended. this was the final hurt. i confronted my sister - in - law at the end of the conversation via email. she accused me of threatening her family and that she was going to contact a lawyer. i spoke of my grievance that she had never allowed me to develope a relationship with my nieces. and confronted her that she was stalking me on social media and since my brother will not even return my once a year call on his birthday that she is crossing the line .
a scabrous, provocative and often funny social satire about the american dream, spike lee’s flawed but fascinating “she hate me” addresses everything from corporate malfeasance to the african aids epidemic, barely catching its breath in - between. yet the frenetic enterprise, while undeniably overextended, reps a more successful venture into darkly comedic waters than lee’s “bamboozled. ” alas, while lee’s films often spark controversy, that rarely equates to good box office (his highest - grossing fiction pic of the last decade, 1998’s “he got game, ” topped out at $ 21 million domestically) and the challenging “she hate me” seems unlikely to reverse the trend .
i am a positive person, but my hater is my sister who my parents and i have helped during her marriage and raising her children. her husband went to jail for white collar crime. she did not go to work and everyone sent her money. she finally did go to work, and i was always there for her even though her husband had affairs. she remained with him. when my father was approaching death, he said, “your sister doesn’t love you. ” it was very difficult for him to tell me this but very important. she took things from me. then she told terrible stories about me. horrible stories – tried to turn her sons against me. she tried to turn my own mother against me, but that worked against her. at the time of both of my parents’ deaths, her relationship with them was very bad. now i have tried to call her but she will usually start yelling at me for no logical reason. the last time i called she called me the devil because although i had forgiven them, i needed to work with them to rebuild trust to have a relationship. her son is still not friendly with me because of something horrible she claimed i did but was supposed to tell him that i didn’t do. i believe in being positive and know that she is my sister, but i am much healthier when i have i no contact with someone who i believe to have problems which have nothing to do with me. the hatred she had for her husband was transferred to her son for several years and then it was transferred to me .
i have tried and tried to speak to them but they refuse, calling me a fantasist, liar. telling me i am fat etc .
i knew i wasn’t pregnant, i didn’t lose my virginity until i was 20! but, she didn’t believe me. it was this kind of behavior that made me avoid going to my mother with any type of problem .
scabrous, provocative and often funny social satire about the american dream, spike lee' s flawed but fascinating
she hate me
addresses everything from corporate malfeasance to the african aids epidemic, barely catching its breath in - between. while lee' s films often spark controversy, that rarely equates to good box office .
hi thank you for your article it was very helpful. i live with my older sister and she undermines all the things i do to try to make my home nice. she breaks my things without even caring or replacing them. the house is in my name and she told me once that she is upset that i own the home and not her. every once in a while something breaks and she doesn’t tell me. she takes my things and doesn’t ask. i feel like she does these on purpose. i’m upset and angry a lot of the time. i feel stressed out a lot. she takes something for depression and i think she doubles up on the meds by accident, it makes her act weird, like overly good mood. i feel like i have to walk on eggshells around her. if i say one little wrong thing she takes it much worse, very overly sensitive, then she takes it out on me in some way. i know i should try to be more positive but it is difficult. any advice? i cant talk to her about anything, something i can do for myself ?
my mom has always been so overly protective of me, like she always had to supervise when i made new friends, and was convinced they’ll hurt me, she was awfully paranoid about it. she also has to make things sound so bad when she’s afraid of something happening to me like when i wanted to go to the theme park with a friend of mine. she was hesitant and tried to put fear in me so i wouldn’t go. she’d say things like “people die at theme parks, i don’t want to loose you” or she’d say things like “you won’t handle a theme park” she’s not letting me have fun with anything. i want to have fun with my life, but whenever my mom is around me when i have friends around, i get uncomfortable. . i just want to rebel and do what i want. i remember in school people especially my friends i had would say “your mom doesn’t let you do anything” i lost friends because my mom didn’t let me do things. even parents of the friends i had used to say “your mom never lets you do anything” it hurt deeply. i don’t know why my mom has always been like this. .
my problum was my sister in law way before my brother even got marryed. she tear red my like crap all the time. i told my mother too do something about this she said just love her! i came too my mother for years before & after but when she says bad things behind my sister s back even my own mother i told my mother what she said. my mother said it dosnt bother me. then i couldn’t stand it i told her off i said she’s being meen then she sent my letter too my mother my mother punished me about the letter then lori fakes crys too my mother on the phone then my mother gets on me. when she should of stood up for her doughters! sister in law was always doing these things but my mother never cares about us .
most of my life my mother has controlled me, and my life, she did so up until my 21st birthday last year. leading up to me being 21 my mother used to tell me what i can and can’t wear, she wouldn’t allow me to have my own style and had to pick out my clothes for me, it was beyond annoying and many people questioned my mother about that and she’d deny it and say “i allow her to pick out her clothes” when she never did. my mother also never wanted me away from her, she’d guilt me into not leaving her side by either crying or just yelling at me. it was like she was so scared for me to be away from her and when any person, no matter who they were whether that be others or family members would say that she needs to not be so overbearing, my mother would then play the victim and cry saying “everyone’s attacking me”. i also was never really allowed to wear makeup unless my mother did it for me. i remember me and my cousin were doing each other’s makeup and my mother had to be in the room with us, giving me and my cousin no privacy whatsoever and demanded she do my makeup. by 17 i just wanted to get away from her, i couldn’t fully express my feelings outwardly in fear she’d throw a temper tantrum about it, and then guilt me for doing so. after my 18th birthday, i really wanted to go to college and study digital media as i had a huge interest in that topic, well my mother guilted me into not going. i however went against her and enrolled myself in the college at 20. let’s just say after my mother found that out, she cried and yelled at me for it. now at 21, i’m in college part time, i go 3 days a week for 5 - 6 hours and i live with my best friend. i’m living the life i want the way i want it now and it feels great .
bloody hell. moyes (when you read that name, say it with venom) writes a book about quadriplegics and she hasn’t met one. had she done so she would have discovered a community of people that have the courage to choose to live .
rapper lil' kim turned down the role of
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“i don’t care what she drinks. this is going into her fucking face. ”
i really needed to read this article. so many points, i’ve written down to help remind myself of. i have a few toxic family members. mostly my middle sister, i am the youngest. she has always been jealous of me. and this causes her to say the most horrific and unkind things to me. her game is she calls me every unkind name in the book and then runs her mouth to our mother that i was mean to her. when i was only ever protecting myself from her cruelty. she is the wolf in sheep’s clothing. my mother then attacks me in the same manner as my sister. they don’t speak, they scream and call names and accuse and cause severe distress. it is so dysfunctional. my sister has always been a bully. but, now that she is middle aged and very unhappy in her life, and i am not, she constantly puts me down and insults me to try and make me feel as low as her. she is toxic. i wish she would go away. i have tried to cut contact, but she needs a punching bag. and, i’ve allowed that to go on for long enough .
i am really glad i read this article. my mother thinks i should hate myself and spent my entire life telling me to change my personality and that i am useless. i have worked through a lot of the self esteem issues but she has made me feel so unloved. unfortunately i got into some financial issues and my five year old son and i had to move in with her. she does the same thing to him and calls him a retard if he makes a simple mistake and tells him and myself that there is something wrong with him. any time i tell her not to talk that way she comes at me full force with how i am a horrible parent and no one will want me and it destoys me every time only i don’t do anything because better me then my son. i just don’t know what to do about any of it. everything i have accomplished with my self worth she is destroying all over again .
looking for something to make me feel better and i found this article. thank you! i’ve always thought i had a great family. as kids we fought but that was normal. 10 years ago we lost my mom. 2 years my dad…4 years my brother. on my brothers birthday me and my remaining siblings (1 brother, 1 sister) head to the oregon coast and celebrate his birthday. . my sister who i have liked to consider my best friend continually attacks me. says mean and evil thongs to me always with a just kidding tag after. now this treatment is not new…she’s always saying mean and disrespectful this to me…about me. i know she is hurting because of the own demons in her life. why does she take it out on me ?
my stepmother is very controlling and has bullied me for 40 years. she also, at times, has been very good to me. i finally had enough of the way she was treating, speaking to and using me, and have walked away from her. trying to reason with her won’t achieve anything as she is never wrong. usually i just apologize even when i have done nothing wrong, to smooth things over and for the sake of my relationship with my dad .
recalling “the lottery” in our conversation, miriam friend was no less disturbed by it than she had been upon her first reading, nor had she changed her mind about it in the last sixty - five years. “such a harsh story, ” she said .
my mum was (and still is) very selfish woman. i’m one of eight. she didn’t care about any of us. kicked me out countless times (and my brother) when i was still in primary school. graciously allowed me to come back just because i was working so i could provide for her. she never showed emotions, love, gratitude, kindness. . anything. she always took but never gave back. after i left my country, nearly 13 years ago she continued her “mothering”. she would always take other people opinions into consideration but never mine. wasn’t talking to me for years when i was going through domestic violence and abuse. showed up in my life when she needed money and stuff. for ever criticised me, my choices and even my children’s (normal for kids) behaviour .
i also helped my older sister when she was 2nd time divorced 12 years ago. she has no place to live, and i let her to live with me. i gave her my clothing and food…in the end, i find out that she go thru all my staff when i was at work. i was really hurt and angry .
i feel i made no demands on her — even now when she is an adult i bite my tongue. (she pretty much agrees with all that–in fact, i can’t determine the source of this awful treatment–and now we may be broken for ever. what she doesn’t agree to (‘my imagination’; ‘something is wrong with me’) is about how she treats me. i respect her wishes (no to certain toys for the children and when i can be around, etc .) –according to her, her dad doesn’t. instead of saying something to him, she says, for example, that she’ll donate the toys just to have them out of the house (never opened) .
my childhood and teenage years were horrible and unfortunately she is partly to blame for it .
haters try to stop you by all means, whether by words or by set of dirty deeds and actions. as you have said “doing more of what they hate” kills them .
some great stuff in here shola! found you through this post. got some negative hurt people trying to tear me and my work down. i love your idea of simply doing more of what they hate. gonna do exactly that! keep rocking man .
my class reunion was so telling. people were coming up to me saying i’m friends with emily and walking away from me. i was angry. i’m the broke one and they are distancing me because they took my inheritance. i didn’t get it because i’m sure she is saying more. what i may never find out .
myself and the brilliant, altruistic doctor i once worked for. he was like a father to me, and was there for me whenever i needed him .
thanks for this article. it really helped me cheer up. i actually have some haters from my ex school, who won’t stop commenting on my achievements and telling people bad things about me. they even commented untrue things about me on youtube. could you please give me some advice to deal with such situations ?
my mom has left me when i was only 2 weeks old for a guy what i had been told from family and she hasnt raised me at all. i remember up until i was 4 i had no idea who she was and i was shy to ask for things from her even tho my siblings were telling me that she was my mother, anyways when i got into my' pre teen years' i moved in with her she always made chore lists everyday while she never cleaned at all. me and my sister would clean up after her and her husband (my step - father) and when i would be at school she would always go thru all my stuff every now and then even my diary that one time. i knew i had to move then and i was only living there for 6 months. and when i was moved back to my older siblings place she made a fb and would always get mad at me for not messaging her back. now i' m an adult and was staying at my sisters house for a bit. we went grocery shopping while my mom was visting and a week later i was drven home without opening one of my bags until i got home and once i opened it she already looked thru it i knew because things werent the way i last put them it got me really mad like i don' t even know her at all we dont bond or anything nor talk at all. like you have no right to do that and try to act as a parent when you know damn well you have never raised me. yeah sure i stayed at her house for a bit but even then we never talked or bond at all. she only took me into her home when i was old enough to take care of myself which pisses me off so much too. she asked me what the fuck is wrong with me that one time me and my other older sister got into an argument and this sister has lived with her for a few years. once me and my other older sister get into an argument she talks shit about me to her friends and then goes to tell my mom and my mom of course backs her up without even listening to both sides of the story. i' m just thinking about this all today and it makes me so angry and sad that i don' t want nothing to do with her anymore. its like she does all this stuff to make me miserable and she treats me like a servant i don' t even feel like her daughter at all.
she hate me is a 2004 independent comedy-drama film directed by spike lee and starring anthony mackie , kerry washington , ellen barkin , monica bellucci , brian dennehy , woody harrelson , bai ling and john turturro . the film garnered controversy , and , as with many of lee 's films , touches on comedy , drama , and politics . unlike many prior works , spike lee does not have an acting credit in this film . the film was shot mostly on location in new york city , including each of the city 's five boroughs . it was nominated for various awards ( see below ) , but did not win . she hate me was released in july 2004 and grossed almost half a million dollars at the box office in limited release , with overall revenues of around $ 1.5 million . the shooting budget was estimated at $ 8 million . 
she hate me is a 2004 independent comedy-drama film directed by spike lee and starring anthony mackie, kerry washington, ellen barkin, monica bellucci, brian dennehy, woody harrelson, bai ling and john turturro. the film garnered controversy, and, as with many of lee's films, touches on comedy, drama, and politics. unlike many prior works, spike lee does not have an acting credit in this film. the film was shot mostly on location in new york city, including each of the city's five boroughs. it was nominated for various awards (see below), but did not win. she hate me was released in july 2004 and grossed almost half a million dollars at the box office in limited release, with overall revenues of around $ 1.5 million. the shooting budget was estimated at $ 8 million.
she hate me is a 2004 independent comedy-drama film directed by spike lee and starring anthony mackie, kerry washington, ellen barkin, monica bellucci, brian dennehy, woody harrelson, bai ling and john turturro. the film garnered controversy, and, as with many of lee's films, touches on comedy, drama, and politics. unlike many prior works, spike lee does not have an acting credit in this film. the film was shot mostly on location in new york city, including each of the city's five boroughs. it was nominated for various awards (see below), but did not win. she hate me was released in july 2004 and grossed almost half a million dollars at the box office in limited release, with overall revenues of around $ 1.5 million. the shooting budget was estimated at $ 8 million.