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akhil mishra was born on july 22, 1965 in india. he is an actor and writer, known for
veteran theatre actor and director akhil mishra has joined the now famous serial uttaran as the character of ummed singh on colors .
he portrayed veer singh bundela’s father in uttaran on colors tv. this popular serial has completed 1000 episodes and one of the best works of mishra up to date. mishra was first married to manju mishra in 1983. she died in 1997. mishra married the popular german actress suzanne bernert in 2009 .
mishra married manju mishra in 1983 who had acted with him in his first feature film dhat tere…ki in 1983 and a serial grihalakshmi ka jinn. manju died in 1997. mishra was doing dhat tere…ki as writer, producer and actor .
akhil mishra, who had played the librarian in
3 idiots
will soon be seen on the small screen. the actor has been roped in for a megaserial on imagine, based on father - daughter relationship. akhil plays the father .
akhil mishra is an indian film and television actor who has worked in films like hazaaron khwaishein aisi, mere dost picture abhi baki hai and television serials such as pradhanmantri .
akhil mishra, who had played the librarian in
3 idiots
will soon be seen on the small screen. the actor has been roped in for a megaserial on imagine, based on father - daughter relationship. akhil plays the father. - times of india
akhil mishra is fondly known for his character' dubey ji' from the movie' 3 idiots' and was last seen in colors' uttaran on the small screen. now, it seems that the actor is set to make a comeback to the channel. < br / > if sources are to be believed then akhil mishra will enter udaan, produced by mahesh bhatta and dhaval gada. he will play the role of a principle. the character is there to stay for long and the actor will start shooting for the show from today (6th january 2015). when contacted, akhil mishra confirmed the news. his entry will be telecast in the coming week. < br / > watch: uttaran on colors akhil mishra as umed singh < br / >
' from my childhood i learned that i could eat pain' … akhil sharma. photograph: tim knox for the guardian
akhil mishra is an indian film and television actor who has worked in films like hazaaron khwaishein aisi, mere dost picture abhi baki hai and television serials such as pradhanmantri. he is currently working in the serial do dil bandhe ek dori se .
akhil mishra is an indian film and television actor who is known for his performance in movies like bhopal: a prayer for rain (2014), 3 idiots (2009), radio (2009) and gandhi, my father (2007) .
family life, by akhil sharma, faber, rrp£14. 99 / ww norton, rrp $ 23. 95, 224 pages
akhil mishra is an indian film actor, who has worked predominantly in bollywood. he has worked in popular movies like bhopal: prayer for rain, blue oranges. his previous film to hit the theatres was bhopal: prayer for rain in the year 2014 .
akhil mishra complete movie (s) list from 2012 to 1983 all inclusive: actor with release dates, trailers and much more. exclusive complied list with movies like mere dost picture abhi baki hai (2012), shikhar (2005), dhat tere ki (1983 )
gr8 work akhil mishra ji in both your new serials: the adventures of hatim and do dil bandhe ek dori se. playing tow different kinds of roles in the same time isn' t every body' s cup of tea. . but you did it beautifully. and your hard work paid off. waiting eagerly for new episodes of both these shows .
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commenting on his win, akhil sharma said: “to be acknowledged by people i respect is a strange thing. i can' t say i fooled them. i feel abashed by this honor. ”
, was about a group of english pensioners, who came down to jaipur lured by ads that promised a treat in the form of a hotel for ���the elderly and beautiful���. incidentally, suzanne���s husband, actor akhil mishra, had auditioned for a part in the film. the sequel, which is set to repeat pretty much the same cast, might see an addition. the buzz doing the rounds is that
mishra later married german actress suzanne bernert on 3 february 2009. they married again in a traditional way on 30 september 2011. he had worked with suzanne in movie kram and serial mera dil dewaana (doordarshan) .
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i found “family life” riveting in its portrayal of an immigrant community’s response to loss. the mishras are surrounded by other indian families, all striving for success in america. and with brilliant authenticity sharma shows the distinct, and sometimes absurd, manner in which many of them behave around the wounded mishras. mrs. mishra’s devotion to her maimed son is interpreted by the community as saintly and she is venerated. (in contrast, mr. mishra’s effort to seek help for his alcoholism is hushed up .) talk of mrs. mishra’s special powers spreads quickly. in a grotesquely self - serving way, some parents bring their children to be blessed by her before their sats. one woman drags in her son who’s stopped being vegetarian — he hangs out with hispanic kids and eats chicken mcnuggets — so he can witness what being indian really means .
“where is ajay? what was the point of having raised him? ” an elderly woman grumbles to her husband about their adult son in the opening pages of akhil sharma’s semi - autobiographical new novel, “family life. ” this book, deeply unnerving and gorgeously tender at its core, charts the young life of ajay mishra as he struggles to grow within a family shattered by loss and disoriented by a recent move from india to america. “family life” is equally the story of ajay’s parents, whose response to grief renders them unable to find the space in which to cherish and raise him .
medicine and science do little for birju. he is blind. he will not walk or talk again. and sharma gives us a potent, unsentimental and at times darkly humorous narrative of how this horrific loss flings the mishra family out of the life they had into an unknown and frightening terrain where little coheres .
akhilendra mishra is an indian film and television character actor best known for his role as kroor singh in the 1990s doordarshan fantasy television series chandrakanta. his other notable works include the character of mirchi seth in the 1999 critically acclaimed film sarfarosh. he also played the character of arjan in the academy award nominated ...
akhil mishra is a veteran actor of theatre, bollywood and television known for supporting and character roles. he played the role of librarian dubey in the historic bollywood movie, 3 idiots. though it was a friendly appearance, the role was well noticed. he is married to german actress suzanne bernert. they have together worked in many television serials including mera dil dewaana for doordarshan and a bollywood movie kram. after marriage, they set up a theater group vijeta and both are associated with it. later too, they have appeared in many television shows. they first married in a civil court on 3 february 2009, followed by a traditional marriage two years later .
akhil sharma received a cheque for €100, 000. the prize money was presented to the winner by owen keegan, chief executive of the award’s founders and sponsors, dublin city council. dublin city has a long and rich literary heritage as well as a thriving living literary scene, and was designated a unesco city of literature in 2010 .
the 2016 shortlist included four novels in translation and authors from america (dave eggers, jenny offill, marilynne robinson and akhil sharma); brazil (michel laub); france and rwanda (scholastique mukasonga); germany (jenny erpenbeck); ireland (mary costello); jamaica (marlon james); spain (javier cercas) .
akhil sharma was born in delhi, india, and moved with his family to the united states when he was eight. he is the author of an obedient father, winner of the pen / hemingway award and a new york times notable book of the year. he lives in new york city and is an assistant professor of english at rutgers university, newark .
“family life tells a story of hopes dashed and ambition thwarted against a backdrop of emigration and displacement”, said margaret hayes, dublin city librarian. “akhil sharma, our 21st winner, joins a unique creative collective. their stories delve deep into personal and family dynamics and bring us memorable narrators, singular voices that stay in our imaginations, the mark of all great storytellers. ”
the winning novel was chosen from a total of 160 titles, nominated by libraries in 118 cities in 43 countries. it was first published in the usa by w. w. norton and in the uk by faber & faber. the shortlist of ten novels, as chosen by an international panel of judges, included novels from five continents. akhil sharma is the third american author to win the prize in its 21 year history .
american author akhil sharma has won the 2016 international dublin literary award for his novel family life. the award is organised and sponsored by dublin city council and at €100, 000 is the world’s largest prize for a single novel published in english. uniquely, the award receives its nominations from public libraries in cities around the globe and recognises both writers and translators. the winner was announced at a ceremony in dublin' s mansion house today .
suffering and the struggle to ameliorate suffering are not unknown in fiction but family life pulls off the extraordinary feat of showing them in their correct alignment. closing the book, having known this mix of light and dark, you are left with the sense that while reading you were actually at the core of human experience and what it is to be alive. this is the highest form of achievement in literature. few manage it. this novel does. triumphantly. luminously. movingly. all hail family life by akhil sharma .
as a reading experience family life desolates and infuriates. it prompts questions too. why should the suffering rich get better care than the suffering rest? isn' t all human suffering equal? however, alongside its subtle interrogation of inequality (this isn' t a febrile work of social criticism) the novel also celebrates the mishra family' s achievement. for all their imperfections, and they have plenty, (there are no paragons in this novel), somehow they cope and somehow they meet birju’s needs, which is a kind of triumph and, for a reader, it is profoundly consoling that they manage this .
when we first meet the mishras, they are a young, middle - class family living in delhi in the mid - 1970s. india is under emergency rule, a time of gloom and uncertainty, but for 8 - year - old ajay and his older brother, birju, life is playful and secure. their mother lights their world, while their father seems so superfluous that ajay wonders if he’s been assigned to them by the government. mr. mishra decides the family should emigrate to the united states because he craves the ­glamour of western science (so much so that he regularly gets his urine tested in a lab) .
“family life” is devastating as it reveals how love becomes warped and jagged and even seemingly vanishes in the midst of huge grief. but it also gives us beautiful, heart - stopping scenes where love in the mishra family finds air and ease. there are moments when ajay and his mother set aside their hurt and fear to breathe life into birju (or “brother - life, ” as ajay refers to him at such times). they joke, playfully call him names, respond cheekily on his behalf. ajay snuggles into bed with his vomit - smelling brother and complains about some teenage humiliation at school with an intimacy he doesn’t share with his parents .
the narrative of family life is thus: the mishra' s - mother, father and two sons, birju and his younger brother ajay (who tells the story and is the novel’s pivot) emigrate from india to the us in 1978. for ajay' s older brother, birju, the new world is initially a triumph until an accident in a swimming pool causes catastrophic brain damage, after which he needs twenty - four care. initially he receives this in medical settings, but then he goes home and is cared for by his parents and his brother. the story of birju' s care is the kernel of the novel, it' s living heart .
this distinctiveness is evident from the first page, when the narrator, ajay mishra, tells us that his gloomy, ageing father recently reproached him for having been a selfish baby. his father’s evidence? “i would start to cry as soon as he turned on the tv. i am forty and he is seventy - two. when he said this, i began tickling him... ‘who’s the sad baby? ’ i said. ‘who’s the baby who cries all the time? ’ ” there is a strange dynamic to this family, an unexpected combination of tension and release, blunt accusation and unnerving reaction. these are people living off - kilter, for reasons that soon emerge .
the mishras settle in a one - bedroom apartment in queens and begin to forge a new life. ajay stumbles, unable to tell his white schoolmates apart, but birju saunters with a new confidence. when mr. mishra offers his sons 50 cents for every library book they read, ajay wonders if his father has turned too american — an indian dad would have threatened to beat them for not reading, surely. when his mother dons a pair of jeans for the first time, birju teases her — fat thighs! fat thighs! and soon birju passes the exams for the bronx high school of science. the nervous family opens the school’s acceptance letter at the temple, on their knees before an idol of the hindu god ram .
just as sharma moved to new york with his parents and elder brother, anup, so the eight - year - old ajay mishra makes the same journey in family life. while ajay finds the transition difficult, his elder brother birju thrives in america, and even wins a place at a prestigious high school. but shortly before term starts birju hits his head on the bottom of a swimming pool and lays unconscious underwater for three minutes, resulting in catastrophic brain damage that leaves him blind and unable to communicate or move. after two years in hospital and nursing homes the family take birju home, and the rest of ajay' s childhood is played out against a backdrop of 24 - hour care, a stream of crackpot faith healers and a family increasingly defined by alcoholism, destructive tensions and lies .
akhil sharma’s new novel family life comes out of hard autobiographical experience. sharma, along with his parents and his older brother, migrated from india to the us in the late 1970s. after a promising start for the family, sharma’s older brother dived into a swimming pool and struck the bottom. the accident left him physically and mentally disabled, and radically re - routed the family’s plans in america. years later sharma, already the author of a well - received novel, an obedient father (2000), as well as a series of short stories for the new yorker and granta, decided to pursue a novel inspired by his family’s situation. he spent 12 years on it and wrote no less than 7, 000 pages along the way, consumed by the effort of getting it right. while this back story invests the book with immediate interest, its distinctive achievement in storytelling terms alone makes it one of the year’s literary standouts .
when he gave up his job he had no idea family life would take so long to write, and while he says his editors were supportive, he also had to insist on not publishing until he was ready .
about six years in my editor at faber said this wasn' t a healthy situation and wanted to see a draft. when he read it he said:' akhil, this is fine. what is your problem with it? we can put this straight into copyediting.' and i know if i had read that book as a reader i wouldn' t have disrespected the writer, but it wasn' t doing what i wanted it to do. that book was dense with unhappiness, whereas i wanted a book that contained all the unhappiness, but was also full of life. so i carried on. everything i' ve ever written has won some sort of award. there is no point in doing something that is not going to move the needle .
a novel is a collection of facts that just happen to have been made up. as the reader reads they stream in to the reader' s imagination and form a virtual equivalent of what was in the writer' s head. the efficacy of this transaction is in direct ratio to the veracity of the author' s facts. the better they are, the sharper the world that takes shape in the reader' s psyche. as readers we know this. mediocre texts generate fuzzy chimeras, while more authoritative narratives so convince we can talk about the characters in the story, for example, just as we talk about our friends because they are as real as our friends. but beyond these is an even higher kind of novel that does more than engage. this kind occupies you so absolutely that while you read and for a while after you finish, the specificities of your own life don' t exist because they have been supplanted by the specificities of the author' s invented world. this kind of usurpation is the greatest pleasure a reader can know and family life by akhil sharma is one of those rare novels that does this .
' it took 12 - and - a - half years and i can' t believe how bad that time was ,
says akhil sharma .
i was such a different person when i began writing it that i feel as if i' ve shattered my youth on this book. i still find it hard to believe that it' s over, and i have this constant fear that i need to go and sit at my computer .
sharma is talking about his second novel, family life, which is published in the uk next week. it tells the autobiographical story of a family' s emigration from india to the us in the late 1970s, and how an accident that left the elder son severely brain - damaged brought them close to collapse. the book has already been published to much acclaim in the us –
deeply unnerving and gorgeously tender at its core
said the new york times – matching the praise sharma received when he emerged in the late 90s with prize - winning short stories and then a 2001 debut novel, an obedient father, which won the pen / hemingway award. but the positive response to family life still feels
almost as unreal as the book being done ,
he says. the intervening period of silence – although he was named on granta' s 2007 list of best young american writers – has not been easy .
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initially, however, the reasons seem altogether familiar: the mishras are a delhi family whose father migrates to the us in 1978, and sends for his wife and two sons a year later. in the typically clear, simple prose of a young boy’s impressions, sharma unfolds the novel’s first sequence of events as experienced by eight - year - old ajay, about to leave his known world for a very different one. writing from a young boy’s perspective allows sharma to explore the sentimentality and melodrama surrounding this departure, without ever succumbing to the saccharine. and so with great ceremony and gravity and then regret, ajay awards his toys to the poor neighbourhood boys queueing for the day’s milk delivery, and soon thereafter leaves for a new life .
in turn, sharma conjures the seeming marvels of america for the new arrivals – ajay’s father proudly introduces them to carpeted flooring and hot water on demand while ajay directly discovers the just - as - remarkable delights of snowfall, 1980s television and lobby doors that open automatically. meanwhile, true to indo - american form, ajay’s parents pressure his bright and assured older brother birju to study and study and study. he gets into a prestigious high school, only then to suffer the catastrophic swimming pool injury .
“i was irritated, ” ajay tells us, right after his brother’s accident. “birju had gotten into the bronx high school of science, and now he was going to get to be in a hospital. i was certain our mother would feel bad for him and give him a gift. ” once more, sharma reveals more than his narrator intends by working within the limited circumference of a young person’s view of what is happening around him .
as the seriousness of birju’s situation becomes clearer, and then all - consuming for his wrecked parents whose marriage simultaneously begins to fracture, ajay goes through a series of reactions that attest to his own despair and confusion. with classmates, he veers between total silence and baroque exaggeration about his brother’s condition. at home, he teases his inert brother relentlessly, compulsively, even aggressively, pretending all is well so he doesn’t have to reckon with birju’s grotesque physical state .
after the family moves to new jersey, where his mother welcomes all manner of self - styled indian healers to practise their arts on her infirm son (in vain), ajay begins talking to a tree he passes on his way to school. he imagines that the tree is god and that the two of them can negotiate better terms for birju or for ajay, but not for both. the better ajay does in his teenage life – good grades, a girlfriend who actually wants to kiss him back, a body that works – the more guilt, and frustration about this guilt, he feels. eventually, he turns to his father for solace. “after a moment i said, ‘daddy, i am so sad. ’ ‘you’re sad? ’ my father said angrily, ‘i want to hang myself every day. ’ ”
while his resilient mother eventually becomes a figure of spiritual power and authority in their middle - class, indo - american world, ajay’s father becomes a flailing alcoholic prone to elaborate fits of self - pity and rage – the tyrant - baby crying from the novel’s first page onwards. indeed, the most moving material in this novel concerns ajay’s reactions to his father’s anger and sadness as it roils alongside his mother’s more placid sadness and endurance. trying to help and love each of them, and to help and love his brother, and to understand his own part and position in all of it, ajay turns to reading and writing as his best possible means of doing all of this. family life is the hard - earned and impressive result .
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sharma’s previous novel, “an obedient father, ” was a remorseless, forceful tale of a corrupt indian civil servant who molests his daughter and ruins lives, including his own. “family life, ” while also about domestic torment, is gentler and of an altogether different quality .
but in an instant, this life ends. birju has an accident at a swimming pool and suffers profound brain damage. when the 10 - year - old ajay first learns of the accident, unaware of its gravity, he casually speculates that if birju were dead, “i would get to be the only son. ”
years pass and birju’s condition remains unchanged. he lies in a bed at home, moaning and puffing spit. ajay prays for countless hours with his parents for his brother’s revival, and feels guilty as he sneaks in a prayer to do well on his math test. his father becomes alcoholic. his mother is consumed by her efforts to “wake” birju. his parents fight, viciously. and in their grief they turn their gaze away from ajay and his need for nurture. they cannot rouse themselves to see how 13 years old he is, how 14, how 15. one cheerless christmas day, ajay erupts, sobbing to his parents that he too deserves something, for enduring — at least some pizza. “i am so sad, ” ajay confides to his father one evening. “you’re sad? ” his father responds; “i want to hang myself every day. ”
“family life” chronicles ajay’s passage through this wreckage. he gets top grades at school. at home he bathes his brother, “cleaning his ass with a bar of soap. ” he begins to understand that the difference between his life and his brother’s is permanent. he talks to god (who looks more like superman than krishna) about his distress at being the sole recipient of his family’s luck. during a fight with his mother, ajay provokingly strips off his clothes, recalling how, in india, eunuchs did this when begging, to panic onlookers into throwing them money. his mother snaps: “if birju were all right, i would tell you... go with your stupid grades and die. ”
sharma' s second novel, family life, took more than 12 years to write. telling the story of a family wrought by tragedy, it mirrors his own harrowing story
i remember gary shteyngart saying to me that there was a sense that i was going to be the one, but then i just vanished. i was basically forgotten and would apply for all these jobs or small fellowships and nobody knew who i was. i know careers are based on books, not on getting attention all the time, but to get some attention is also nice .
but while the broad facts of that story match those of sharma and his brother anup' s own lives, finding a way to most effectively tell it proved almost insuperable. from the beginning he was aware that it was
a coming - of - age story, an illness story and the story of a child' s love for his parents and his brother
. it is also an immigrant story. and although sharma objects to an
often racist category that places white people in a separate category from brown and black people, family life is definitely an immigrant novel, and one of its subjects is the indian community in america of which i am tremendously grateful to be a part ,
he says .
but while it is a very loving community, if you are perceived as being shameful then you are rejected almost immediately. that is seen with alcoholism and other addictions, but also mental illness. my mother would always say my brother was in a coma, a more acceptable phrase than brain - damaged. i think these are things we should acknowledge and deal with as a community and was an aspect i felt was worth representing .
although sharma admits his novel could belong in several literary traditions ,
i don' t think it belongs in any one tradition. and it is also technically interesting because it is without much of a plot. something occurs, and then the weight of that causes a bunch of other things. but each thing is not pushing into the next thing, so i read a lot of really great books in trying to find a way to tell my story, a life story, in a way that would hold people' s interest .
he read vs naipaul' s a house for mr biswas (
a book that gives the ending away
); and proust (
to my mind the great work of the 20th century, more so than even ulysses
) to find solutions for his book about remembrance. he also looked at non - fiction memoir ,
but none of these allowed for the experience i wanted to generate .
his breakthrough was a technical one when he decided to eliminate elements of what he calls
the sensorium
resulting in minimal description of sound, smell, or feel in the novel, elements that sharma says act in a
sticky
way on the reader .
and that' s why other writers like those elements, that stickiness can be useful in arresting the reader, but in a story not reliant on plot i wanted to remove any sources of friction so as to provide the narrative with more velocity. in technical terms it is the thing i am most proud of .
what has been his parents' response to a book in which few of the characters come out well ?
they haven' t read it, and i think i would prefer it if they didn' t. i don' t see the point of them revisiting these things. we all behaved badly. if i get on a plane i become uncomfortable and irritable. imagine the pressure of spending years of having no money and taking care of someone. you behave badly. you get angry for all sorts of reasons. you become self - destructive. when i asked my father if he wanted to read it he said:' why? i was there.' and he was. we all were .
of india, and delhi his birthplace, sharma says :
i used to go back so often, sometimes for three months in the summer, it felt like i never really left. and my family never really became integrated into america because of our crisis. when you are under that sort of enormous strain you are pushed back to your roots, and my parents were pushed back into this world of faith healers and religion, so in a lot of ways i didn' t feel like i really entered america until i went to college .
living in new jersey, he grew up in an openly racist environment
with people cursing at us in the street, and being spat at at school. when i entered college, although i didn' t experience racism, i still didn' t feel comfortable and wanted to view myself as separate and different. it took quite a long time for me to realise that it was ok, and i didn' t have to always be on guard .
after having virtually no access to books in india, on arriving in america sharma had become a prodigious reader .
i felt alone and frightened and reading was a little like drinking, you could vanish into it. i also watched lots of tv. it was more artificial, but it was also more manageable than real life, and unsurprisingly as a writer i have always liked, and also felt safe, in a constructed reality .
when he was about 15 sharma started to write short stories –
plagiarised things from science fiction magazines that i' d present as my own just to receive attention
– and he later obsessively studied a biography of ernest hemingway ,
without reading actual hemingway, but i thought,' this is how it' s done.' i learned very quickly and quite soon was writing decently .
by the time he won a place at princeton – he later went on to stanford and harvard law school – his academic career combined business courses with high - profile writing programmes, although he says at the time he didn' t properly appreciate the eminence of his teachers .
but paul auster then was not paul auster as he is now. even toni morrison was not toni morrison in the way she is now. joyce carol oates was probably the most famous back then .
his early ambition was straightforwardly to make money .
i was writing, but it struck me as foolish to do something that i knew was so unlucrative. i admired and respected writers, but in the same way as i admired and respected social workers. it was not something i wanted to do myself .
sharma went into investment banking and managed to combine the long hours with producing his early stories and his first novel :
from my childhood i learned that i could eat pain .
an obedient father, begun when he was 19, was about a corrupt and sexually abusive civil servant, and was set in india as at that time it was a world he knew better than america. for a while after its successful publication
moneymaking and writing lived together just fine, but then it just became too horrible being a banker, and i was happy to get out of there .
a 2001 interview casually mentions his
nice mid - six - figure
salary, but
as you get older you value different things ,
he says .
recently a former colleague offered me a job paying more than i used to earn, but you only get one life and we
– he is married to a lawyer he met shortly before going to harvard –
have enough for what we need.
akhil mishra is an indian film and television actor who has worked in films like hazaaron khwaishein aisi , mere dost picture abhi baki hai and television serials such as pradhanmantri . he is currently working in the serial do dil bandhe ek dori se . he became famous by doing the cameo role of librarian dubey in 3 idiots . he also acted in bhopal : a prayer for rain . 
akhil mishra is an indian film and television actor who has worked in films like hazaaron khwaishein aisi, mere dost picture abhi baki hai and television serials such as pradhanmantri. he is currently working in the serial do dil bandhe ek dori se. he became famous by doing the cameo role of librarian dubey in 3 idiots. he also acted in bhopal: a prayer for rain.
akhil mishra is an indian film and television actor who has worked in films like hazaaron khwaishein aisi, mere dost picture abhi baki hai and television serials such as pradhanmantri. he is currently working in the serial do dil bandhe ek dori se. he became famous by doing the cameo role of librarian dubey in 3 idiots. he also acted in bhopal: a prayer for rain.