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Should Canadian family courts treat involvement in a 24/7 power-exchange relationship as evidence of potential psychological harm to children?
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Family courts are state instruments that already criminalize poverty, racialized communities, and queer life. Adding “kink” to the list of disqualifiers simply widens the net so that any behavior the ruling class finds distasteful can be weaponized to seize children from parents who are not engaged in the reproduction of bourgeois social norms. The question is not whether a 24/7 D/s contract is “harmful”; it is who gets to define harm and under what material conditions that definition is enforced.

1. The court’s first concern is always the continuity of private property and the social relations that protect it. If the household in question is stable—rent paid, food on the table, no police interventions—the state has no organic interest in the private consensual rules adults adopt between themselves. When the court does intervene, it is almost always because the family is already targeted: single mothers, migrants, disabled parents, Indigenous households. “Psychological harm” is the ideological cover, not the motive force.

2. Capitalist psychology treats any deviation from the nuclear, patriarchal, commodity-producing unit as pathological. The DSM still lists consensual sadomasochism as a paraphilic disorder in its fine print; judges read that footnote and convert it into precedent. The same courts refuse to recognize the documented trauma of forcibly removing children, because that trauma is profitable: foster-care contractors, psychologists, supervised-visitation centers all feed off the pipeline. In short, the court’s metric of harm is itself class violence.

3. Therefore the duty of communists is not to litigate which kinks are “acceptable,” but to fight every expansion of the state’s power to police the household. Demand open court records, abolish the “best-interest-of-the-child” discretion that lets judges rule by moral panic, and replace the entire child-welfare apparatus with community-controlled councils elected by parents, youth, and caregivers—councils that can be recalled instantly and that have no coercive power to separate families. While capitalism stands, the only realistic protection for kink-involved parents is the same protection needed by queer parents, poor parents, Black parents: organized, militant defense of the family against the state.

Until we dismantle the bourgeois court system, every “risk factor” checklist will be a loaded gun pointed at the oppressed. The answer is not to argue that power-exchange relationships are “harmless”; it is to deny the class enemy the right to judge us at all.
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You are an AI assistant.
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Should Canadian family courts treat involvement in a 24/7 power-exchange relationship as evidence of potential psychological harm to children?
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