text: My attention, by being abrasive? That doesn't seem like a good idea. 
  
  What for? To delete the duplicate bus stops that you'd added? I'd already done that. Which you'd have known if you'd just bothered to check. 
  
  Please do your best not to make more work for other OSM editors.
  
  For example, check that something isn't already on the map before adding it. Another example, check that a duplicate hasn't been removed before requesting it be deleted. If you don't have the skills to do these basic tasks, please learn. http://learnosm.org/en/ is a great resource.