text: Nobody is "throwing fits," this is simply hyperbole on your part.
  
  You've never driven a while to really good Chinese take-out?  I have — wow, you're missing out.  (And it's not that far from where I live, exactly where, you don't actually know).
  
  If you can't see changeset histories in OsmAnd and you've been told not to map (or leave Notes, or have activity that would overlap with my edits...) in Santa Cruz County, then don't use OsmAnd, use a tool (there are plenty) that does tell you.  You using the wrong tool to figure something out you've been scolded to figure out isn't my error or the map's error, it's your error.
  
  I don't have "my own way" of resolving Notes, I use the OSM way, the proper way.  In this case, because of our histories, you didn't.  That IS on you.
  
  I sincerely doubt you are "done," but we'll see.