text: No hurt feelings here.  More like me avoiding the same behavior I've seen in dark people (as in "dark tetrad," or "psychotic").  It isn't that you frighten me, it's more like I don't want to have anything to do with you by continuing go-nowhere discussions.  So to be clear:  I won't let you hurt my feelings, even though I have let you waste my time.
  
  Map.  Map well.  There is much more to that than endless words and rancor.