How to chat with the women in dating

Many guys feel shy and awkward at the thought of chatting up a woman. They imagine the embarrassment of being rejected and even laughed at. Sadly this fear of rejection can hold you back from approaching women.
Accepting rejection
Once you learn to accept rejection then you will see it as just one step nearer to finding your perfect date. Chatting up women is a numbers game. The more women you chat up the more confident you'll become, and even though you'll get rejections you will also find some really hot women that will love to date you.
So how do you approach a woman you fancy in a bar, and what do you say to her? The chances are she is feeling just as nervous as you are. Breathe deeply and just go up to her. Don't hesitate as not only will you look nervous, but other guys may get in before you. There is a lot of competition in bars and nightclubs.
If you feel very unsure of yourself you could try catching her eye first. If she holds your gaze for more than a few seconds then this is a good sign. Smiling is an even better sign and you should have no worries about going up to her.
Any single woman in a bar or club may be expecting to get hit on by a guy. If she is with friends don't let this put you off. Chat to her friends as well as this will make you look relaxed and friendly.
Breaking the ice
Breaking the ice can be hard, but if you can think of something funny to say then it will be much easier. Women love a guy who is funny and will find him attractive. Keep the humour light hearted and don't whatever you do make any sexual comments. She may feel threatened by it, and you could scare her off. Read humorous books and find funny chat up lines on the internet that you could use.
For example you could say something like "Are you interested in helping homeless people?" If she says "yes", you could then say "how would you like to take me home then?" Be confident when you say this. Don't be half hearted and say it in a timid an