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These are wonderful cat puddles! | ef49r2 | 7268ee7aaf04a204 | 1,577,262,208 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "24-25 years old", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Social justice issues, particularly racial discrimination and microaggressions in workplace settings", "Pet appreciation, especially dogs and cats, with enthusiasti... | [{"content": "AITA for gifting my sister pictures of my dog?\n\nI'm a bit of a jackass I will admit, but hear me out. So today I was at my parent's house to celebrate Christmas Eve with my side of the family (as this year I will be spending Christmas with my girlfriend's this year). Anyways, we opened presents up early... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "7268ee7aaf04a204", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
ESH. Idc if i get downvotes. It seems that you are trying fo make yourself look as innocent as possilbe and some people here are calling for it. You didnt say what the argument was about and u just dropped ur kids off at your sisters house like nothing ever happened. | miquq1 | 2b892ba11bbd42ad | 1,617,402,417 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "20-21 years old (was 20 in July 2020, last post April 2021)", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has personal experience with bullying during school years; mentions being bullied 'as well' when relating to others' experiences"}, "interest... | [{"content": "AITA for not babysitting for my sister in law any more after she called the police on me?\n\nMy sister in law and I have an agreement. She watches my kids 3 days a week, and I watch hers 3 days a week. This agreement has stood since March 2020 without issues. Any changes have been discussed weeks in advan... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "2b892ba11bbd42ad", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
NTA! Shame on him! | hk5vqi | b4d29f7fb399a7cd | 1,593,734,563 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and parent-child relationships, particularly responding to posts about therapy sessions, guardianship decisions, and parenting conflicts", "Child welfare and saf... | [{"content": "AITA for pressing charges against my son?\n\nMy son (28) was visiting us for a couple days and was at my house alone babysitting my daughters kid.\n\nAccording to my son, the other day my 4-year-old granddaughter (his niece) pulled down the TV and broke it. My son told us that he took the TV to the dump a... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "b4d29f7fb399a7cd", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Then they could sit with themselves between the kid and other people. And even bring like a file folder to hold up as a barrier to him seeing. They could pay extra to get a 4th seat for an extra buffer.
They're AHs. | ut5mbn | 3526473ae6c4f7b8 | 1,653,002,698 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Married for at least 15 years as of 2020, has a husband, uses kanban boards for household management"}, "interests": ["Language and linguistics, as shown by commenting 'There's no language on Earth ... | [{"content": "AITA for telling a family to fly private?\n\nI was recently flying from NYC to LAX for a work trip and I had the displeasure of sitting next to a family and a little boy (9). I got on the plane in the midst of issues with my diabetes and I needed to eat within two hours so I began snacking. I immediately ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "3526473ae6c4f7b8", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Her job is to sell drinks and food to make a profit for the restaurant owners. Not providing the beer the husband ordered would be unprofessional. There would be no way to please that couple, so she just needs to sell as much as possible. She was very professional. | j1d4gn | 5e126a74f28f2c38 | 1,601,323,131 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Likely female (references 'my husband' learning their language)", "location": "France (explicitly states 'here in France')", "occupation": "Teacher in higher education (states 'I'm a teacher in higher education')", "nationality": "French or French resident (discusses Fran... | [{"content": "AITA for refusing to return a tip AND telling a couple that I dont have time to play mediator?\n\nI'm a 22 year old, female waitress at Texas Roadhouse. This is one of my two jobs to put myself through college. Most days are fine but other days are a living hell.\n\nYesterday I was assigned a table that h... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "5e126a74f28f2c38", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
I am also proud of you! It’s so hard to stand up to family members, but you do not have to take their nonsense because you’re related, because she’s pregnant, because you inherited and they didn’t. You are just beginning your adult life- don’t let them pull you down. You’re doing great. Keep it up. | kb6uo4 | 066e1ad9091dd6d5 | 1,607,725,120 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female (identifies as 'bi lady' married to a man)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Bisexual, married for at least 8 years as of 2020, navigates heteronormative family spaces while maintaining LGBTQ+ identity"}, "interests": ["LGBTQ+ r... | [{"content": "AITA for selling my family home because my pregnant sil ate my dinner\n\nI know shitty title but I\u2019m in a rush to get to work so excuse my grammar \n\nAlso I want to point out me and my brother have two different fathers \n\n\nI (19f) lost my father last year to cancer he left me 90% of his stuff inc... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "066e1ad9091dd6d5", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
Not going to lie ... this post made my house real dusty all of sudden. Badly affected my eyes. | etguwh | edbef0a8cdb68dab | 1,579,909,500 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Was unwed/single as of July 2019; owns/rents their own house that they clean themselves; personally knows identical twins well enough to distinguish them"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and interp... | [{"content": "UPDATE: AITA for letting my brother call me \"dad\" and refusing to tell him the ugly truth?\n\nOriginal post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ehmsme/aita_for_letting_my_brother_call_me_dad_and/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share\n\nHey guys! So many people wanted me to update on my p... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "edbef0a8cdb68dab", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
When my Mom was ill and using a wheelchair, the disabled parking at her doctor's office was cut in 1/2 because of construction. Usually, they had 2 full rows that were designated disabled and they were often filled. I would use a disabled parking spot to unload Mom, and the aid would take her in. Then I would move the ... | hidzc5 | 4b3ea443d37f4f55 | 1,593,530,062 | 6 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA (likely United States based on educational terminology and references to 'my district', US school systems, and American educational policies)", "occupation": "Teacher (explicitly states 'I'm a teacher' and 'ESL certified Teacher'; references extensive... | [{"content": "AITA for not telling someone I can read lips\n\nThis happened pre COVID btw.\n\nI've had hearing loss for most of my life , but it was diagnosed when I was about 7 years old. So I learned to read lips at the same time I was learning to speak. I'm very proficient in reading lips.\n\nWhenever I work with so... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "4b3ea443d37f4f55", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
Such an awful, mercenary way of thinking. The thought doesn't matter, and the usefulness doesn't matter. Only the monetary cost matters when judging the value of a gift. Gross. Such little worlds these people live in. | ov7s4p | e0888bbe520ed67f | 1,627,755,962 | 6 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Male (identifies as 'queer dude')", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "LGBTQ+ (specifically identifies as queer)"}, "interests": ["Family conflict dynamics and toxic relationship patterns, particularly involving betrayal and manipulation"... | [{"content": "AITA for no longer making toys and furniture for my former SIL after her new husband called them an \u201cembarrassment\u201d and me cheap for not paying for stuff?\n\nMy brother died before his firstborn child was born, because of this I've had an above average involvement in my nephews life. One thing I... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "e0888bbe520ed67f", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
NTA. I laughed. That’s awesome! Maybe mamas got to learn a new phrase because if she didn’t ask what gets her goat enough for OP to notice, he wouldn’t have gone there. | tb6ywm | 3f89b628394609f8 | 1,646,943,900 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Relationship conflict resolution and interpersonal drama, particularly AITA subreddit content", "Wedding-related conflicts and family boundary issues, as evidenced by detailed r... | [{"content": "AITA for teaching my (20M) niece (4F) to say \"el chupacabra\"when her mom (32F) says \"you know what really gets my goat?\"\n\nUh basically title I guess. My sister has a habit of saying \"you know what really gets my goat\", she probly says it 7/8 times a day. So like that tumblr post i taught my niece ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "3f89b628394609f8", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
INFO- Do you live in the house together? Is it paid off or will he be paying for it? If you combine taxes, how will you insure that all home expenses (taxes, maintenance, etc) will fall to you? | k9husr | 0fe6aac42a2201af | 1,607,480,938 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "Late teens to early 20s (approximately 16-20 years old during 2020 posts based on self-reference)", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Demonstrates knowledge of legal/financial concepts like life estates and prenuptial agreements; has per... | [{"content": "AITA for saying that my daughter inherits my house \"no matter what\"?\n\nI'm a single mom in my 50s with one daughter. I got very lucky in that I bought a home in the Bay Area nearly 30 years ago for around $230K before the tech boom and now the house is worth about $1M. \n\nI have a 23 year old daughter... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0fe6aac42a2201af", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
She came to talk to her parent(s) and she left her phone downstairs, if you recall. Dad did not demand she show it to him nor did he forcibly take it from her hands. I think this was the daughter's way of asking for her dad's help without asking outright. It tells me that she trusts her dad to help her fix a difficult ... | f9m670 | d5fd138ce261412a | 1,582,738,097 | 8 | {"demographics": {"age group": "early-to-mid 30s (stated early 30s in Feb 2020, last response July 2021)", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and parent-child relationships, particularly gatekeeping behaviors", "Personal autonomy and... | [{"content": "AITA for kicking out a girl from my daughter's sleepover bday party?\n\nMy (34M) daughter (14F) had a sleepover b-day party last saturday, and she invited 5 girls from her school.\n\nThere was this one girl that she invited who I could tell from her attitude, was a spoiled brat. When she rang the doorbell... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "d5fd138ce261412a", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
My across the street neighbor was my creepy stalker when I was a teen. I am 53, so it was before mass shootings and incels. I was 16 and he would call me, to tell me he was sitting on his roof, watching me through the scope of his gun. I was living with my mom at the time and didn't know what to do, so I packed up a... | qxwjur | aad135f02d4d40df | 1,637,405,215 | 4 | {"demographics": {"age group": "53 years old (as of November 2021)", "gender": "Likely female (contextual evidence: references to being a mother, wearing dresses)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Parent of two sons (one biological, one adopted from foster care); has sarcoidosis (ch... | [{"content": "AITA For quitting on the spot even though we were understaff and it made my manager cry?\n\nI worked at a retail store in the mall. The store is divided into men\u2019s, women\u2019s and children\u2019s clothes. I always worked women\u2019s and on the weekdays I was always the only employee in that entire... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "aad135f02d4d40df", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Yeah SIL is showing she is only willing to the bare minimum to replace the fabric. Which sucks, definitely.
At this point, OP has a better chance of sending her (or maybe even the SIL's husband) a bill for replacing based on store costs or a link to buying the fabric or something similar online. | e4nn5v | 73ee6d075111d5bd | 1,575,257,835 | 7 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female (likely based on context of being a wife with a husband and self-references)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "Unemployed (as of 2019, mentioned 'Lost my job, haven't found another')", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Married, experiencing financial difficulties and... | [{"content": "AITA for DEMANDING my SIL replace the expensive fabric she and her children DESTROYED with EQUAL fabric?\n\nI am STEAMING mad about this and everyone around me is pretending like I'm being a cunt. I'll let you people decide. First, I sew my own clothes. My husband and I live in a very nice house with a HU... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "73ee6d075111d5bd", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Funerals are for the living. Let them do what lets them cope the best. | df2xqn | c8fdbbb406c5d668 | 1,570,580,405 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "Late 20s to 40s (based on marriage context)", "gender": "Male (mentions 'my wife' in response about authority dynamics)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Married to a woman with a professional job; discusses household financial decisions jointly"}, "i... | [{"content": "WIBTA if I played \u201cAnother One Bites the Dust\u201d at my brother\u2019s wake?\n\nMy brother died. He was an incredible, funny guy, I miss him like I lost one of my limbs. Maybe it\u2019s stupid, but I want people to remember the person he was. My dad and aunts have been involved in planning his fune... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "c8fdbbb406c5d668", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
A 9lb baby born at 20 weeks? That's one for the record books! That's how I would bring it up....LOL! I love sanctimonious "Christians". Mom was embarrassed at church. She should be. | zvmflw | 435a25aa8ec853a2 | 1,672,067,700 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "60+", "gender": "Female", "location": "United States (moved across country at some point)", "occupation": "Retired (previously worked full-time)", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Married with adult children (son and daughter), has grandchildren or daughter-in-law, has been married for sev... | [{"content": "AITA for bringing up my brother's \"premature\" birth at Christmas dinner to get my parents to shut up?\n\nI am a nurse practitioner and I am the primary care provider for a lot of the low risk maternity cases at the practice where I work. I also work hand in hand with the doctors and midwives to create ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "435a25aa8ec853a2", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
Watch "Boy Erased" or "Trapped: The Alex Cooper Story" if you want to learn more | kazgfw | 996e3bdee2beb7c3 | 1,607,694,009 | 4 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family conflict resolution and dynamics, particularly parent-child relationships", "Boundary violations and personal property rights disputes", "Workplace interpersonal conflict... | [{"content": "AITA for not telling people my missing cousin is staying with me right away?\n\nIt is the middle of the night, and my phone won't stop ringing because of my family.\n\nTo try and keep this short, my cousin \"Jake\" got outed about 4 or five days before his 18th birthday in the summer. His parents, my aunt... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "996e3bdee2beb7c3", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
You have a genuine reason and have conveyed that reason to your co-workers so that they know you're not doing it to belittle them. That's all you can do. You've allowed them the dignity of knowing that you would love to be able to pronounce their names, but that you struggle to do so.
This stepsister apparently has n... | mnnms8 | a2820e971c905434 | 1,618,007,828 | 4 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Parent of at least three children (mentions 'my son' and 'his brother and sister'); has ADHD (explicitly states 'I also have ADHD'); likely uses British English based on spelling patterns ('realise'... | [{"content": "AITA for making my step sister seem \"uneducated\"?\n\nHi. So, i (f21) am currently staying with my family on my dad's side. My step sister is 19. We never got along. I grew up in Korea and have a Korean name. I won't say it here but it's the same as a Blackpink member, not too hard to pronounce specially... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "a2820e971c905434", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
That's more like it. | e27d33 | b8ad5f1b7513eaf3 | 1,574,824,271 | 6 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Volunteer Reddit moderator for r/AmItheAsshole with a separate full-time job, as stated: 'I'm an unpaid volunteer who has a real job to get to'"}, "interests": ["Community moderation and subreddit g... | [{"content": "Want to NOT be the asshole? Adopt a dog in need!\n\nHi everyone, I'm your friendly, neighborhood subreddit founder. The rest of the team and I have been busting our humps day in and day out moderating away the very worst vitriol and troll traffic we find in this space and we think we've earned the right ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "b8ad5f1b7513eaf3", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#349e48", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ed... |
Sarah isn't the reason. Your wife's treatment of Sarah is the reason. Your wife is the reason. | ku4ppq | d34db8b65d346fef | 1,610,248,749 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and intergenerational conflicts, particularly involving toxic parents and boundary-setting", "Workplace conflicts and professional relationships, especially rega... | [{"content": "AITA For not giving my wife her daughter's address so she could see the newborn?\n\nHear me out please. I'm a 46 year-old father who lost a daughter (Molly) years ago to Brain Cancer. Molly's death broke me. She was my only child I'm no longer who I was before this tragedy. I married my wife when my stepd... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "d34db8b65d346fef", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Except there's a big difference here, which is that presumably her sister isn't using her real name on the Only fans and there's no way you can get the pictures without paying. Unless the recruiter is a subscriber I think she's going to be fine. | jc39u7 | ed329bc2fe503445 | 1,602,858,137 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "Approximately 21 years old (stated 19 in 2019, last post in 2021)", "gender": "Male (explicitly clarified in wedding post: 'I wanted to clarify that I am in fact a guy')", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Identifies as bisexual (stated: 'As a bisexual ... | [{"content": "UPDATE: AITA for kicking out my identical twin for selling nudes online?\n\nOriginal post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/fd08eh/aita_for_kicking_out_my_identical_twin_for/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf\n\nHey yall, so a while back I made a post about how my twin sis... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ed329bc2fe503445", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
I said the same quote about this better be the hill op is willing to DIE on! | ulcrp6 | 46c62671a622bf2a | 1,652,068,928 | 5 | {"demographics": {"age group": "30s-40s (based on having children aged 1.5, 7, 10-12 years old across 2020-2022)", "gender": "Female (explicitly identifies as 'mom' and 'mother' throughout responses)", "location": "Bay Area, California (explicitly states 'We live in the Bay Area')", "occupation": "Rental property owner... | [{"content": "AITA for cancelling mother's day celebration that I arranged for my wife after hearing what she told my son?\n\nI (M/37) have a 13 y.o son. I was a widower when I met my now wife. She has a 16 y.o daughter from another relationship. The family is often on pretty good terms. My son is the quiet one in the ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "46c62671a622bf2a", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
A sister bond is unlike any other. If my sis chose her inlaws over me and my gf I would be inconsolable. Such a massive betrayal.
If I were OP I would say 'me and my gf or neither of us, your choice'. Then it's on her. If she chooses to pacify homophobes rather than love and stand by her sister then she can't say tha... | qyux9z | f81ccd339212a49c | 1,637,526,464 | 5 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female (in same-sex relationship, references 'me and my gf')", "location": "Likely UK (uses British terminology 'A&E' instead of 'ER', British spelling patterns)", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "In a same-sex relationship with a girlfriend, has a siste... | [{"content": "WIBTA if I refuse to go to my sister's wedding because I can't bring my girlfriend as my +1?\n\nI'm a lesbian, and I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years now.\n\nMy family, including my sister, is all fine with me being gay and supportive of my relationship. However, her fianc\u00e9 comes from ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "f81ccd339212a49c", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
NTA. You did the right thing. Your first responsibility is to your son not to protect your sisters feelings. Keep doing what you're doing, you're a great dad. | f93gj0 | 5bcbe5697ea927a5 | 1,582,624,095 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and interpersonal conflicts, particularly responding to AITA posts about complex family situations", "Parenting decisions and child welfare, showing concern for ... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my sister I don't trust her to watch my son?\n\nI'm a 19 year old man with a 3mo old son. His mother surrendered her rights and is no longer in the picture. I work 4am-12pm at a gas station and I raise my son, that's what I do these days. Only one of my friends still speaks to me and hang... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "5bcbe5697ea927a5", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Oh, I thought he just didn’t have the key to get into the trailer. | uptyk1 | 537b5a855da553c0 | 1,652,582,040 | 7 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female (explicitly identifies as 'white woman' in responses about hair care)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "White woman with very curly hair (3c type) who uses Black hair care products and has struggled with finding appropriate hair... | [{"content": "AITA for leaving my best friend and his friends stranded in an unfamiliar city?\n\nSo for background, my best friend has gotten into going to these Spartan races. He and a small group of his friends have started going to local ones but recently heard about one in another state they wanted to go to and com... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "537b5a855da553c0", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Also all the people saying “oh well I’m poly/my friend is poly and has a kid, but we/they do it the RIGHT way and the kid is just totally fine with it and everything is great because it’s different from how OP’s parents did it”....totally ignoring that OPs parents ALSO felt 100% sure they’d done poly the “right” way un... | ihp8sc | 6dbdce22b5cb5c99 | 1,598,570,970 | 5 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA (likely 30s-40s based on references to 'years in a horrible marriage', being 'older and more experienced', having a child, and career experience, but no explicit age stated)", "gender": "Female (explicitly states 'as a woman who was cheated on', refers to self as 'the hard-working mom... | [{"content": "AITA for yelling at my parents that their polyamory fucked up my childhood?\n\nEDIT: to all of you who DMed me to tell me about how fucking great polyamory is and that you're mad I gave it a bad name, you have issues if that's what you take away from this post\n\nI believe it started when I was around 6 y... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "6dbdce22b5cb5c99", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Lol, right?! What grown ass adult can’t just grab a spoon and HAS to dip their fingers into food?? OP is clearly NTA. | 116lmfw | 65788b221e0458aa | 1,676,839,179 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "University professor", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Parent with children"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and relationship conflicts", "Child welfare and protection issues", "Intimate partner abuse and domestic violence resources",... | [{"content": "AITA for yelling at my girlfriend to \u201cstop fucking eating?\u201d\n\nMy (M26) sister (F23) runs a bakery business and she\u2019s been struggling lately to keep up with orders because she\u2019s been short staffed. She does a lot of orders for wedding cakes that require custard or marmalade fillings, a... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "65788b221e0458aa", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
NTA
Funny that she came up with another name entirely. The English form is Emil. | jlzj6u | 16eeb65bfba1453f | 1,604,223,976 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Criminal law and felony classifications, repeatedly identifying situations as 'felony vandalism because of the value of the property destroyed'", "Civil litigation procedures, s... | [{"content": "AITA for calling my grandma by wrong name until she gets my name right?\n\nThis has going on since forever so decided to do something. I\u2019m (16m) half Mexican from my dad\u2019s side and my mom\u2019s side is Scottish. Ngl most of my mom\u2019s family is high key racist and is been problems sometimes ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "16eeb65bfba1453f", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa... |
If dad had wanted it to go to uncle, he would have left it for uncle. I believe having land/property/a house is way more valuable than having the money, especially if sentiment is involved. OP just needs help getting them out, which is expected due to her youth. I hope she keeps the house. | kb6uo4 | 184b8d1bfe666f82 | 1,607,716,337 | 4 | {"demographics": {"age group": "50s-60s (parent of adult daughters, potential grandmother, references to 20-year marriage ending ~2017, currently in 4-year relationship as of 2021)", "gender": "Female (references to ex-husband, daughters, being a DIL in hypothetical scenarios)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "Educati... | [{"content": "AITA for selling my family home because my pregnant sil ate my dinner\n\nI know shitty title but I\u2019m in a rush to get to work so excuse my grammar \n\nAlso I want to point out me and my brother have two different fathers \n\n\nI (19f) lost my father last year to cancer he left me 90% of his stuff inc... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "184b8d1bfe666f82", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
NTA - the fact that she is saying it’s your fault for not letting her use your car shows she’s learned nothing from this yet. If you drop the charges she still won’t learn anything and will continue to go through life thinking everyone owes her whatever she wants.
Let’s say you drop the charges, what happens next tim... | jn5elo | 6fcfe977919faeb4 | 1,604,398,078 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "35-45 (based on WoW vanilla raiding since 2004, suggesting gaming from late teens/early 20s)", "gender": "Female (discusses personal use of period underwear and stress incontinence in women, uses 'their' for partner suggesting non-binary or privacy preference)", "location": "Australia (e... | [{"content": "AITA for pressing charges?\n\nMy cousin turned 18 recently. She\u2019s in high school. \n\nShe doesn\u2019t have a car, and during her birthday weekend, thought her parents were going to buy her one. They didn\u2019t get her one and she was pretty upset. I should note that I\u2019m not very close with my ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "6fcfe977919faeb4", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Worse, the "compromise" was that OP could live in her own home WITH THE KIDS and sister would live elsewhere.
Sister says, "Fine you won't give me your house, you can be my permanent full time babysitter."
OP NTA. And tell your sister "I asked the internet and it said, 'OH, HELL NO!'"
Might burn some bridges, but th... | i3c7d0 | 05b753683e85f333 | 1,596,545,879 | 5 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Likely female (mentions breastfeeding for 7.25 years and nursing through pregnancy)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Parent with at least two children; experienced with infant care and extended breastfeeding; mentions tandem nursing"}... | [{"content": "AITA for refusing to let my sister and her kids move into the house that I bought?\n\nI'm a 32 year old woman and I just bought my first house. It has 3 bedrooms, a yard and is just what I need right now. I'm single and have 2 dogs. My sister is 34, has 3 children and lives in a 2 bedroom apartment. Late... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "05b753683e85f333", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
I am just so sorry Mr Rodriguez. Your wife sounds like an amazing woman that was loved tremendously by all. I will be sending you all my positive healing/ comforting thoughts to you and your family. | uj9izs | 38ff85bfb72da077 | 1,651,798,821 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Parent of a 5-year-old daughter (mentioned 'our 5 year old has noticed I've stopped eating'); has experienced loss of a nephew/niece to terminal illness"}, "interests": ["Relationship conflicts and ... | [{"content": "AITA for throwing my sister and her son out of my house?\n\nI (35M) am a single father of 3 boys (10M, 7M and 3M). Their mother died last year due to ovarian cancer. It has been a rough year to say the least. My sister got divorced 6 months ago and temporarily moved in with me and the boys. She has a son,... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "38ff85bfb72da077", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "fe... |
So glad to read your update.
Keep looking after yourself. | xx6vqu | e61120c73319d2df | 1,665,092,221 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has adult children - mentions 'Our son and daughter in law bought before engagement, but they had also been together for 10 years at that point', suggesting they are a parent of adult children"}, "i... | [{"content": "UPDATE: AITA for the way I reacted to my parents open relationship and no longer paying rent\n\nIts been over a week since I [posted](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/xnpygp/aita_for_the_way_i_reacted_to_my_parents_open/). Thank you guys for your Judgments and advice. I have blocked my pare... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "e61120c73319d2df", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
How dare you. Wanting universal healthcare like every other developed nation means that you're cool with Stalin wiping out millions of his own people. Don't you understand that we can't have a strong social safety net without literally living under a communist regime??? (/s) | jkzyqj | b84eea7ba50dccff | 1,604,086,472 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "30s-40s (based on career trajectory as consultant, having spent 8 years in Deep South, moving across country as adult to settle near mother, and established professional career)", "gender": "Female (references to boyfriend, shaving legs, 'my boobs are legendary' note, being a 'mama's gir... | [{"content": "AITA for refusing to train with a Nazi?\n\nSo I practice BJJ for a couple of years, mostly attendings classes that require a Gi. This means that our bodies are pretty much covered (this is important).\n\nA new dude has joined our gym recently - I saw him in a class but did not roll with him. Last week I a... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "b84eea7ba50dccff", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
That's what I was thinking -- does she think she "insulted" op? Some people don't think being fat is negative or consider it an insult to mention it. She didn't call op a fat worthless pig or a disgusting whale or something. She called her a "bigger woman" in the context of her husband taking care of the family with hi... | ze4qw3 | 206581d7fee844b2 | 1,670,343,868 | 6 | {"demographics": {"age group": "30s-40s", "gender": "Female", "location": "United States", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Vegan for 10+ years (since approximately 2010); has experience with therapy and mental health discussions; has had past experiences with problematic landlords and housing situati... | [{"content": "AITA for banishing my teenage daughter's friend from our house because she made fun of my weight?\n\nI (37f) have two kids with my husband (41m); a 14-year-old daughter and a 10 year-old son.\n\nOur daughter has always been a little socially awkward to the point that we've had her tested since we suspecte... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "206581d7fee844b2", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
I concur. You may have to tell your daughter that she won't be allowed if if she doesn't dress up. | il24rf | 03ebc55bd51bf28d | 1,599,056,505 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "35-50 (has multiple children, references evolving views over years, discusses parenting decisions spanning years)", "gender": "Male (references 'My wife and I' and parenting decisions as father)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "Possibly legal or professional background (demonstrates kn... | [{"content": "AITA for forcing my tomboy daughter to wear formal clothing?\n\nHi all. My family is Indian-American, but I like to think I am pretty progressive. I (40F) have a son (16M) and a daughter (15F). My daughter has started to become a tomboy over the last 2 years, despises feminine clothing and style. While it... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "03ebc55bd51bf28d", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
> He and his wife haven’t accepted their position
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Right! They are GUESTS in OP's home, staying FOR FREE. I don't know how they manage to think that they would get anything but the guest room. And he called OP "entitled."
Why yes, bro, we do, in fact, hold the title to this house. Please leave. | jeujp5 | 4ab5592173538646 | 1,603,231,251 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and interpersonal conflict resolution, particularly in AITA scenarios", "LGBTQ+ acceptance and parental support, as evidenced by emotional response to father mak... | [{"content": "AITA for not giving my brother(and wife) the bigger room?\n\nMy brother\u2019s wife lost her job. Which has caused them to lose the house they were renting. My brother asked if he could stay with me. I talked to my bf and he said sure. \n\nSo, I told my brother yes, *BUT* he can\u2019t bring any of their ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "4ab5592173538646", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
No shit. My brother came out to me 14 years ago, shortly after telling my mom, & having her react poorly (& completely out of character, she has always been an ally, working with the lgbtq+ community in our country on projects to change laws & regulations for inclusivity, has 2 gay brothers herself, & worked as ... | cgq9zs | 51c8e2c46286e4c4 | 1,563,894,680 | 6 | {"demographics": {"age group": "30s-40s (based on having children ranging from toddler to tween years, and brother coming out 14 years ago)", "gender": "Female (based on context of giving birth and maternal references)", "location": "United States (immigrated to US, married to Midwesterner)", "occupation": "NA", "natio... | [{"content": "AITA for being honest with my nephew about where I was for most of his life?\n\nOkay, let me just get right into this. I [27M] was kicked out at 16 because my older sister [37F] outed me to my parents as gay. They completely cut off all contact with me and I didn't see any of my family up until last year,... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "51c8e2c46286e4c4", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
Yah he said dad told him to bring his partner. He was definitely being used to some extent | eayiq4 | 4d2595cdfd34a8e4 | 1,576,433,190 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female (discusses birth control, PMDD, periods, and other female-specific health issues extensively)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Adopted; went no contact with father and paternal grandmother; takes hormonal medications for PMDD a... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my father \"we'll catch the next one\" when he invited me to his wedding?\n\nHe's been married 4 times now, and this wedding will be his fifth in the span of 30 years. I don't know how he has such a high turnover rate but I'm guessing it's to do with him being both rich and a raging narci... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "4d2595cdfd34a8e4", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Congrats on having awesome siblings and getting away from your parents!
Also, I generally don't like multiplayer games, but I've recently got hooked to Sea of Thieves. Very simple, fun game for 2 - 4 people (though more with alliances) where you play as a pirate. I didn't think it'd be my thing but after watching a fe... | hdk7i3 | 43fc8900947844cb | 1,592,832,568 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "38-39 years old (was 36 in 2022)", "gender": "Male (references 'your typical teenage boy' in first-person context)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Interpersonal conflict resolution and moral judgment scenarios on AITA subreddit"... | [{"content": "UPDATE: AITA for possibly making my parents homeless?\n\n[Original post here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/grza29/aita_for_possibly_making_my_parents_homeless/)\n\nHey folks! It's been like three weeks and many, many things have happened. I graduated high school (go me!), I turned 18, a... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "43fc8900947844cb", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
I’m so glad you told him you hope she leaves him! She should. What he was doing was ridiculous and cruel. Tell him I said so..as do hundreds on the internet! | p0p2ui | 39e1b275ecf20026 | 1,628,469,088 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "35-45 (based on having a grown stepdaughter and being married for several years)", "gender": "Likely female (references having a stepdaughter and uses maternal protective language)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Married, has/had a stepdaughter whos... | [{"content": "AITA for making a scene of my adult son and sticking my nose in his marriage\n\nI\u2019m 60 and bad with the whole text thing on mobiles so I\u2019m hoping I won\u2019t be judged on my grammar \n\n\nHere\u2019s the important background my daughter in law (32) and son(33) have 3 children aged 3 years 2 yea... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "39e1b275ecf20026", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac... |
This is also a form of abusive grooming. Life with him will not improve. OP, leave now before he gets his mental claws imbedded. | ot3iy2 | 5790b59ef353cf84 | 1,627,472,940 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has a sister, had a father who passed away, dealt with inheritance issues, was expected to be a caretaker for sister but refused"}, "interests": ["Family conflict resolution and boundary-setting, pa... | [{"content": "AITA for buying my boyfriend birthday gifts? I am confused and upset\n\nMy boyfriend turned 21 last week and I bought him a new video game he had been wanting and a t-shirt.\n\nHe started ignoring me and leaving me on read after that.\n\nI asked him what was wrong and he finally said it was unfair that I ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "5790b59ef353cf84", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
Nah, now she’s got a ring so she feels like she’s “won.” It’s petty and childish.
Also - if Fran wants to be a SAHM - OP gave her a huge gift: a debt-free, college-educated husband. | rqh4dn | 736798e039996647 | 1,640,741,308 | 4 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Witnessed domestic violence as a child ('My dad didn't start hitting my mom until after I was born'); demonstrates knowledge suggesting possible background in mental health or psychology"}, "interes... | [{"content": "AITA for 'forcing' my son to wait to marry his then high-school girlfriend?\n\nI (f50s) have 2 sons, Dan (m22) and Sam (m27). Dan started dating 'Fran' in their junior year. Towards the end of senior year, Dan came to me and said he wanted to marry Fran. At the time, Dan had multiple college options which... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "736798e039996647", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Literally the only things you have to do special is learn ASL, network with a new community, and get a video baby monitor (my child has quieter cries, most deaf children are the same as hearing in this regard).
You would have to network with a new community if you adopted a kid of a different race or the kid ended up ... | i4vv3t | 2307006e873a93fc | 1,596,745,721 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Mother of an infant deaf daughter; homeowner; comes from a family/community where divorce is culturally discouraged; has sole custody of child with ex-husband paying child support"}, "interests"... | [{"content": "AITA for telling everyone exactly why I'm getting divorced?\n\nMy ex and I have one child together. We found out during my pregnancy that our child would be deaf, and wouldn't qualify for the surgery that some deaf people are able to get due to a combination of problems. While the external issue is a fluk... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "2307006e873a93fc", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
But why have the people working the desk be uncomfortable? It’s not their fault that the store has 1 changing table. | vkbtw7 | ce05492ca835da8e | 1,656,175,822 | 7 | {"demographics": {"age group": "40s-50s (based on having adult biological son who found them, having a 12-year-old child, and elementary school friend with adult sons)", "gender": "Female (references being a 'birth mom', former SAHM, and having a fianc\u00e9)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "Currently employed after ... | [{"content": "AITA for going into the ladies room?\n\nI am a 31 yo man and was at a large store yesterday with my 5mo son when he did what babies do. I went over to the restrooms and saw that there wasn't a family/companion restroom, just a men's and women's. I went into the men's room and saw there was a cubicle and a... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ce05492ca835da8e", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Nta you called out an unfair situation and you should take it further | f0rue1 | fc0e2c4ffa4c9c9a | 1,581,170,375 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA (likely 25-45 based on having a young daughter and references to family members)", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA (likely English-speaking country with COVID hospital restrictions)", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Parent with at least one daughter; mentions 'I ope... | [{"content": "AITA for telling the judge of a scholarship competition that if she already knew who she wanted to win, to cut the crap and just let us all go home?\n\nI'm in high school, we had a final presentation before winter break, and we had judges from the community come in to reward the best presentations. Like n... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "fc0e2c4ffa4c9c9a", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac... |
i wish you had a link for that | h79apz | f075f30b8fa5e79b | 1,591,929,654 | 6 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female (refers to 'my husband' and positions herself as wife in the dishwasher joke: 'he said to me \"i wish we had a dishwasher\" and i patted his back and said \"i do!\"')", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Married (mentions 'my husba... | [{"content": "AITA for asking my friend for a \u201cboob-voyage\u201d party?\n\nA while ago, my doctor found a cancerous lump in my breast. Thankfully it was stage 1, but I did end up having a mastectomy. It was a stressful time, and when my friend was over a few days before my surgery, we got on the topic of the \u201... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "f075f30b8fa5e79b", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Ha, genuinely no, but I'm too afraid to use a lawnmower in case I lose my spares. | cw9hdj | fa3bf42faf833567 | 1,566,943,639 | 4 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female or non-male (explicitly states 'I'm not a male' and 'I'm not a he, fyi!')", "location": "NA", "occupation": "Recently started a new job (mentions 'started a new job about a month ago')", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has dyspraxia; missing three fingers on dominan... | [{"content": "Aita for giving all of my coworkers a different reason for why I have missing fingers?\n\nI have three fingers missing on my dominant hand. It's fine. I can type and everything and even manage to tie my shoelaces most days (and on the days I can't, that's the dyspraxia). However, I won't deny that it look... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "fa3bf42faf833567", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
And this will all happen in front of the poor kid if it's on Christmas day 🙄 jeez OP keep your girl away from that nut job. | kebg11 | 5e691abafe77beff | 1,608,156,017 | 9 | {"demographics": {"age group": "approximately 29 years old (stated '27F' in 2020-07-29 post, last response 2022-08-28)", "gender": "Female (explicitly stated 'I'm 27F')", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "Likely British (uses British English spelling 'mum' consistently, references 'boxing day', uses... | [{"content": "AITA For Refusing to meet my sister on Christmas after she called CPS?\n\n\u25cfI M37 lost my wife of 10 years and it was so devastating for me and my daughter. It's unfortunate but life goes on no matter what happens\n\nMy family knows how much I struggle as a single dad and my sister doesn't really get ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "5e691abafe77beff", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
This
>You really don't want to encourage your daughter to dissect and criticize other people's personalities, but both you and your wife need to acknowledge that you backed your daughter into a corner and let her know that you don't think she would have composed an unkind power point if she weren't being pushed into a... | k2seky | a1e2161378016a62 | 1,606,592,379 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "Works with people whose first language is Spanish, suggesting a diverse professional environment", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Daughter of a Korean immigrant mother and white father; was not taught Korean growing up due to father's... | [{"content": "AITA For not punishing my daughter for mocking her cousin?\n\nMy wife and her younger sister are best friends. As a result, when our middle daughter and her cousin were born around the same time, my wife really expected them to also be best friends. With sixteen years of hindsight, I can say with certaint... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "a1e2161378016a62", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
That's the next town over from where I grew up!
Fuck that lady. | hysbcq | df9b1fb8fbf25d62 | 1,595,866,496 | 7 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA (mentions growing up near a town in New York state)", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Takes antidepressants for mental health treatment; owns two dogs; grew up with feminist health literature in the home"}, "interests": ["Family dyn... | [{"content": "AITA for not donating my liver due to a lawsuit and the person died?\n\nMy (24M) partner's (23F) close friend and boss (50'sM) at the mechanic shop needed a liver transplant. They had been on the list for a while and getting nowhere. Lots of us got tested and I was a match. We were all happy and thrilled ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "df9b1fb8fbf25d62", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#a1009f", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "33... |
FUCK HOSPITAL BILLING. Yeah, I said it. Fuck the entire billing department of every hospital in the United States. I hope they all get a paper cut just before going on vacation.
They over billed you because they can. They did it because nobody ever fights back. They do owe a written justification for their fuckery, a... | zdk3bq | 47e4e35e6b1a0759 | 1,670,277,489 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Identifying and calling out abusive relationship dynamics, particularly DARVO patterns and controlling behavior", "Child welfare and protection, especially regarding bodily auto... | [{"content": "AITA for how I fought my boyfriend's medical bill, going \"too far\"?\n\nMy boyfriend had to go to the ER after a accident, and he got a truly ridiculous bill back. I offered to fight the bill for her because I've done it before, and he said sure. \n\nI went all-out, because honestly if we were out 5 gran... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "47e4e35e6b1a0759", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
That's literally how I learned poker. I have an older cousin who got stuck at the "kids" table until he was around 22. He's older than the rest of the cousins by almost a decade (more in a couple cases)... so he taught us all poker. I think I was 11 or 12 at the time. | p2n3hq | 40c278416c53a49b | 1,628,786,055 | 5 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family conflict resolution and interpersonal dynamics, particularly in AITA scenarios", "Workplace ethics and professional boundaries, especially regarding exploitation and fair... | [{"content": "AITA for leaving a family gathering because my family made me sit at the kid table?\n\nFor context: I haven't seen my full family together in quite some time, so they set up a get together at a park today. The family gathering includes me (22m), my brother (21), my sister (25), her husband (29) and their ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "40c278416c53a49b", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Mom is sweet for trying to stay neutral and trying to relate to both of your POVS, but in this particular situation, she needs to reality check your sister that the mere request of “asking” to borrow your dress was incredibly insensitive and distasteful. The entitlement and attitude is even grosser. How do they not see... | erfvwt | 0f4186e7d1f423ac | 1,579,554,770 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "30s", "gender": "Female", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Married, mentions having a husband who is 'super respectful' and tells her she's beautiful"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and interpersonal conflicts, particularly in blended family situatio... | [{"content": "AITA for cutting up and altering my wedding dress into a functional dress instead of giving it to my sister who can't afford an expensive dress?\n\nI need an unbiased opinion on this because I don't know if i was the asshole.\n\nThrowaway because I am active in other communities and I don't want this to m... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0f4186e7d1f423ac", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
> It is about being concerned and is appropriate if presented correctly
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I disagree. There's no reason to bother other people with your concerns. Especially about something like this where people *know* they're being unhealthy.
This whole "I accept everyone as long as they're trying to be health... | d31cjt | b03acbb6d2ec4902 | 1,568,274,583 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Relationship dynamics and power imbalances, particularly analyzing how partners treat each other in domestic situations", "Gender roles and domestic labor division, frequently c... | [{"content": "AITA for calling my body-positive co-worker \"unhealthy, deluded, and bitter\" after some rude comments she made about me?\n\nI'm currently working part-time at a restaurant on my university's campus. I mostly work shifts with this one girl, we'll call her 'Anna', who is all for the body-positivity moveme... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "b03acbb6d2ec4902", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#c7a509", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d5... |
Oh wow. I never thought of it being a way to hide an ED. I hope you’re back on track with more healthy eating. Thank you for sharing. Very good insight. | q0gbbz | 38b1abbb9f5ed691 | 1,633,281,883 | 8 | {"demographics": {"age group": "Approximately 45 years old (born around 1976, based on being 8 years old in 1984 when sister died, with last response in December 2021)", "gender": "Female (explicitly states 'I thankfully have never been pregnant' and discusses breast reduction surgery and nursing from personal female p... | [{"content": "AITA for not accommodating my brother's vegan fiancee?\n\nFull disclosure, I do eat meat, eggs, and dairy. That being said I'm lazy and prepping and cooking meat takes more work than I'm willing to do a lot of the time, so I've built up a pretty okay repertoire of vegetarian and vegan meals. That's why I ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "38b1abbb9f5ed691", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
The main mistake the gym guy made is thinking any bra could hold them. A bra would just enrage them and put the gym and all gym goers at risk. If she leaves them free they will be calm and promise not to destabilise her while she squats. | p7iuom | 54121986b02c524f | 1,629,446,901 | 6 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Likely a parent or has close friends with young children based on the anecdote about a friend 'absent mindedly lent over and started cutting it up for me' after spending time with children"}, "inter... | [{"content": "AITA for telling another gym member to wear a bra?\n\nI (25f) fucking hate wearing bras. They're uncomfortable, constricting, and expensive. With work from home, I spent the last year and a half basically never wearing a bra and got used to it. Quite frankly, my boobs are nonexistent anyways.\n\nI recentl... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "54121986b02c524f", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
bambody is much cheaper and they're really nice imo! I think they're more comfortable than thinx/softer. the inside linings are all black. those + buncha farmers stain stick will go a long way. | i65e2r | 790e222cb98aaa57 | 1,596,934,917 | 7 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA (likely female based on menstruation references)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "Mexican (explicitly stated: 'am Mexican, have uncle \"leo's\"')", "other": "Has experienced menstruation (recommends period products from personal experience); has ... | [{"content": "AITA for \u201cperiod shaming\u201d my daughter?\n\nI\u2019m a 41M single dad with a 13 year old daughter Lacey. My wife died in childbirth and it\u2019s just been me and Lacey all her life. My sister has been a big help in raising Lacey, and we do keep in contact with her maternal grandparents. \n\nThe i... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "790e222cb98aaa57", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac... |
This! NTA!!! OP, you *are* Billy's mom! You raised him through the hardest times in his life, more than his birth mother ever did for him. It is no one's fault but your SIL's that she decided to not be his mom anymore. If she doesn't want to do her literal only job as a mother, she doesn't get to reap the rewards of ha... | g9t0d6 | 34a0fe6323306050 | 1,588,112,278 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female (mentions 'I'd be giving my husband daily blowjobs' and refers to self in female context)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Married with children and dogs, as mentioned in Roomba discussion"}, "interests": ["Family relationship ... | [{"content": "AITA for letting my nephew to call me mom?\n\nAwhile back, my brother married a woman who had an 11 year old son named \"Billy\". A year later my SIL gave birth to a little girl. Two years later, she gave birth to a boy. Billy, who was 14 by this time, was treated like an outsider. My SIL and brother saw ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "34a0fe6323306050", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
I think it might be worth mentioning though that NYU is not a corolla to Cornell's ferrari. They're both extremely good schools--top 30 in the entire US (per us news and world report), with comparable starting salaries out of college.
OP (and her sister) should go wherever she feels she will be happiest. The academ... | b84xxt | 5dd357b445b36f44 | 1,554,149,619 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "40-44 years old (stated 'almost 40' in June 2020)", "gender": "Female (references nursing babies, being a wife, mentions 'my husband')", "location": "NA", "occupation": "College professor at a prestigious public university who evaluates graduate and medical school applicants", "nationali... | [{"content": "AITA for going to my sister\u2019s dream school when she just got rejected?\n\n[UPDATE](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ca82iu/update_aita_for_going_to_my_sisters_dream_school/)\n\nSo, I got into Cornell last week. Honestly I think it was fluke. I\u2019m not smart, at all. I got a 28 ACT, ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "5dd357b445b36f44", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
I'm really doing my best to not say mean things to her right now, because I think then she's just create problems out of spite. If I keep my mouth shut, she might just leave and stay with parents, and that's really all that matters. | uj9izs | 83f962392e36f266 | 1,651,863,336 | 4 | {"demographics": {"age group": "35-36 years old (stated 35M in May 2022 post)", "gender": "Male (explicitly states '35M' and refers to himself as father)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA (though financially stable enough to own home, afford family therapy, and consider paying for hotel)", "nationality": "NA", "oth... | [{"content": "AITA for throwing my sister and her son out of my house?\n\nI (35M) am a single father of 3 boys (10M, 7M and 3M). Their mother died last year due to ovarian cancer. It has been a rough year to say the least. My sister got divorced 6 months ago and temporarily moved in with me and the boys. She has a son,... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "83f962392e36f266", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Only 20 minutes?!? My friend sent stamped cards that were filled out except for a check box, and still people didn’t spend 20 seconds to check a box and drop them in the post. | hzyy7b | 2c71adf289625ee9 | 1,596,033,358 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Parent with multiple children, at least one son and references to 'kids' plural; children appear to be school-aged to young adult based on contexts (Cub Scouts, elementary school, sensitivity issues... | [{"content": "AITA for refusing to RSVP to my sister\u2019s wedding because I\u2019m required to write an \u201capplication essay\u201d just to attend?\n\nYeah I know this sounds insane but I\u2019m living in it. \n\nSo my sister is getting married next February, destination wedding no less. I have doubts whether this ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "2c71adf289625ee9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
NTA. He could change it, but he chooses not to. Not your problem. I get email for a guy in Texas, Argentina, and New York. I used to forward important looking emails, after a couple of years, I said screw it and stopped. | heoy9x | e2caf05448cf022b | 1,592,971,013 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family relationship dynamics and conflicts, particularly parent-child relationships", "Boundary violations and personal autonomy issues, as evidenced by supporting the son getti... | [{"content": "AITA for changing the package pickup each time someone uses my email for orders?\n\nSo pretty much, there\u2019s this guy who keeps ordering things with my email. He isn\u2019t using any other personal information of mine so i don\u2019t think it\u2019s a privacy concern. \n\nSo back to the point, I will ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "e2caf05448cf022b", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
It's never *you* causing the drama just by living life and being somewhere.
Drama is only caused by the people who think you shouldn't be allowed exist.
And people need to stop tissue-wrapping those people to protect them from the world, because by protecting the intolerant, they are oppressing the innocent. | qyux9z | 09504cf4ef2f08ea | 1,637,516,538 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family conflict resolution and interpersonal relationship dynamics, particularly in AITA contexts", "Legal rights and protections, frequently suggesting 'Please see an attorney'... | [{"content": "WIBTA if I refuse to go to my sister's wedding because I can't bring my girlfriend as my +1?\n\nI'm a lesbian, and I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years now.\n\nMy family, including my sister, is all fine with me being gay and supportive of my relationship. However, her fianc\u00e9 comes from ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "09504cf4ef2f08ea", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "db... |
Yup! I hope OP sees these comments and takes her money literally elsewhere.
Do not spend thousands trying to procreate with this man. He is showing his true colours, accept that and run away or let him permenantly stay with his friends.
OP needs someone who will actually be a partner in this. | vm861k | 505ff87dc7b6d60e | 1,656,410,508 | 6 | {"demographics": {"age group": "27-32 years old (based on being in secondary school in 2000s, last response June 2021)", "gender": "Female (uses 'I' when discussing period products, mentions being catcalled as a schoolgirl, discusses experiences as a woman)", "location": "United Kingdom (uses \u00a3 currency, British s... | [{"content": "AITA for getting back the money my husband took from our IVF treatment and gave to his friend?\n\nTo start off I want to say that my husband (36M) has an old friend (33M) that he's known since highschool. they're inseperable and spend the entire week together. like they're really really close.\n\nMy husba... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "505ff87dc7b6d60e", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Yeah, but his entire excuse for taking the picture was that he had read the tag and identified the dog as a seizure alert dog. Any percentage of likelihood is too high when you're consciously making a terrible choice like that. | e015on | 03322dcacb7f7b2e | 1,574,439,858 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and intergenerational conflicts, particularly involving mothers, sisters, and children", "Relationship issues including infidelity, coming out stories, and partn... | [{"content": "AITA For telling a stranger to delete a picture of me and my seizure alert dog that he took of me on the bus even after he told me why?\n\nHeya. \n\nSo this happened a few days ago, and I'm still pretty worried about whether I'm an asshole or not. \n\nI take the bus to and from work and it's quite a long ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "03322dcacb7f7b2e", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "fe... |
That is YOUR house not his children’s house. Your daughter wants it as her future home he wants it as a potential payout for his kids absolutely NTA | k9husr | f9a4204d0d91d68b | 1,607,478,921 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "Indian", "other": "Given a Muslim first name despite not being Muslim, as stated in response to 9/11 discrimination post"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and parent-child relationships, particularly responding to... | [{"content": "AITA for saying that my daughter inherits my house \"no matter what\"?\n\nI'm a single mom in my 50s with one daughter. I got very lucky in that I bought a home in the Bay Area nearly 30 years ago for around $230K before the tech boom and now the house is worth about $1M. \n\nI have a 23 year old daughter... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "f9a4204d0d91d68b", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
That's that part that grossed me out too. I can understand bring them out during the act. It is fun to get frisky on the couch (though I have only been frisky on my own couches, not ones owned by other ppl...). But ffs, it's not that hard to clean up and put the toy back into private spaces. I don't want anyone not pre... | ihaau8 | 0642daf391bb4345 | 1,598,503,707 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "North Carolina, USA (specifically mentions being 'in NC' and references Stokesdale near Charlotte)", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has a mother living in rural NC; owns at least one cat (white cat with history of urinary crystals); h... | [{"content": "AITA for moving out and taking EVERYTHING\n\nTHROW AWAY for obvious reasons. \n\nUPDATE - in comments :) and cat tax is \nhttp://imgur.com/gallery/HJtx6Jh\n\nBackground. I (30f) lived with a longtime friend (30m). We lived together for 6 years and known each other for 20 years (close families) He was ve... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0642daf391bb4345", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
I suspect dad knew what was up the moment he saw three people and only two drinks. That’s why he asked. | v5r6pf | 868c60cb6f2f8c88 | 1,654,487,373 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "40s-50s", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "Likely healthcare-related field", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Catholic background with choir experience; sang mass 'a couple decades' ago"}, "interests": ["Healthcare regulations and HIPAA compliance, expressing affection for ... | [{"content": "AITA for getting upset and telling my dad his girlfriend didn't buy me a Starbucks drink?\n\nI (17F) have been living with my dad (45M), his girlfriend of 2 years (33F), and her daughter (13F) for a couple of months now while my mom (40F) is visiting my sick grandfather in Sweden. I've only ever stayed at... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "868c60cb6f2f8c88", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
The kids I've met named Kylo are pretty cool, the kids I've met named Renesmae are usually the kids who parents give them princess themed rooms and have never let them fall over. | lmp6fs | b68e592778728ccb | 1,613,665,268 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "18 years old (as of 2021)", "gender": "Female (explicitly stated as pregnant)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "Student completing course in June 2021, planning to work in chosen field", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has a stutter affecting pronunciation; lives independently; has paren... | [{"content": "AITA for not letting my boyfriend name our daughter Renesmae?\n\nMy boyfriend and I are both 18, and 35w pregnant with our daughter. Since the day I found out we were having a girl he was hell bent on naming her Renesmae, absolutely refuses to compromise. He's a massive twilight fan, I personally hate it ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "b68e592778728ccb", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
I was thinking, “when did Baby’s First Thanksgiving” become a thing? | ysezdy | 2e27683739a9f143 | 1,668,187,792 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Interpersonal conflict resolution and moral judgment scenarios", "Family dynamics and boundary-setting in relationships", "Religious hypocrisy and conservative family conflicts"... | [{"content": "AITA for canceling the plans for thanksgiving after my parents called my brother\u2019s baby their \u201cfirst grandchild\u201d?\n\n[update](https://www.reddit.com/user/throwawayz_12345/comments/yy9a7e/update_on_canceling_the_plans_for_thanksgiving/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=android... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "2e27683739a9f143", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
U guys are so cute T_T stop it. Thank you for taking these two in, regardless of having the availability or not, im glad they have supportive older siblings.
Also, Kalani is a beautiful name! (Im gonna add that to my baby list)
It made me tear up a lil seeing how OP was amazed by all the normal loving things presen... | hdk7i3 | b461aee7a613beff | 1,592,821,586 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "Mid-to-late 20s or early 30s", "gender": "Likely female", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Planning to get married and have children soon; has experienced religious discrimination in family (grandparents didn't like mother due to different religion); h... | [{"content": "UPDATE: AITA for possibly making my parents homeless?\n\n[Original post here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/grza29/aita_for_possibly_making_my_parents_homeless/)\n\nHey folks! It's been like three weeks and many, many things have happened. I graduated high school (go me!), I turned 18, a... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "b461aee7a613beff", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Yep! It’s a term of jealousy. Where the people using it are (in their minds) punching up. | j6qi9b | d12e5a7b5333e3d7 | 1,602,090,798 | 6 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has lived in or spent time in the UK ('once I'd lived in the UK'); familiar with Canadian geography"}, "interests": ["Gender equality and feminist issues, particularly analyzing misogyny in modern d... | [{"content": "AITA for flipping out on my sons school after they lied to him about donation prizes?\n\nI will try not keep this short with just points rather than description. If INFO is needed, please ask.\n\nSon is in 4th grade. School is only open on Mondays. The rest of the week he is home with me. They dont do vir... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "d12e5a7b5333e3d7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa... |
Nta and the fact that he tried to use your past against you makes him TA | ihjphi | 0449ad0a59adf74d | 1,598,544,759 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "late 20s to mid-30s (has multiple young children including a 2-year-old as of 2020)", "gender": "female (explicitly states 'Talking to a me[n] about periods is just weird')", "location": "Washington state, USA (states 'I live in Washington it's legal here')", "occupation": "NA", "nationa... | [{"content": "AITA for refusing to be in my father's wedding even tho I \"cheated too\"?\n\nA story as old as time. My (f27) father (50) cheated on my mother for 5 years with a younger woman(currently 32) and he left my mother when mistress got pregnant. It tore our family apart.\n\nI resent my father because my mother... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0449ad0a59adf74d", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
NTA. She cheated for SIX YEARS and then wanted to have a huge row with him about paternity and claim you're TA? No, just no. | gdr20t | 9e5da754c7e92150 | 1,588,715,576 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Relationship conflicts and interpersonal drama, particularly in AITA subreddit contexts", "Family dynamics and toxic family relationships, especially parent-child conflicts", "P... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my brother in law that paternity tests aren't automatic\n\nUPDATE: wow this got a lot of comments!!!\n\nSo I have done a LOT of snooping. And it is way more soap opera than I thought.\n\n1) apparently since child 1 didn't look like him at all, she made up the paternity test scheme to tric... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "9e5da754c7e92150", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
God doesn't exist, but if a deity did, it wouldn't use other people as tools and kill them off just to punish someone. That's about as immoral as possible as it completely ignores the "free will" and agency of the father and son in this situation and makes the surviving wife the center of God's attention. What did th... | jad6d7 | 4ad76ab279c945c1 | 1,602,636,609 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "Approximately 20 years old (stated 19 in August 2019, last response June 2020)", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA (though mentions having had a 3.9 GPA, suggesting recent or current college student status)", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Likely college-educated or in ... | [{"content": "UPDATE: AITA for kicking a friend out of my house for what she said?\n\n[Original Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/iwpbdx/aita_for_kicking_a_friend_out_of_my_house_for/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)\n\nIt's been a few weeks since the situation happened, so I will start off ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "4ad76ab279c945c1", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
> That's what we always planned for.
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> so we didn't plan for it
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OKAY | oll5ex | 241e5879d6775dc0 | 1,626,471,714 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Analyzing interpersonal conflicts and relationship dynamics, particularly in AITA scenarios", "Identifying logical inconsistencies and contradictions in people's statements and ... | [{"content": "AITA for being surly, rude and mean at a wedding and leaving early?\n\nI was asked to be a member of the wedding party. Despite this, I was THE ONLY person, not only in the wedding party, but also at the ceremony, who wasn't allowed to have a +1. This was an outdoor wedding with unlimited seating and thes... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "241e5879d6775dc0", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
This sub really likes to put stepparents in an unwinnable position. Treat and love the stepkid as if they were your child, but they’re not your child so don’t treat them like they are. It’s like being a stepparent means you get held to the responsibilities of parenthood with none of the rights or reward. | ku4ppq | f4045d45ca274127 | 1,610,380,865 | 7 | {"demographics": {"age group": "Late 30s (under 40 as of 2020, last response January 2021)", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has a grandmother who was 16 in 1929; mentions having a boyfriend in one response context"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and interpersonal ... | [{"content": "AITA For not giving my wife her daughter's address so she could see the newborn?\n\nHear me out please. I'm a 46 year-old father who lost a daughter (Molly) years ago to Brain Cancer. Molly's death broke me. She was my only child I'm no longer who I was before this tragedy. I married my wife when my stepd... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "f4045d45ca274127", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
This is honestly genius. | hx80wd | 1d84be7880a9573b | 1,595,633,309 | 5 | {"demographics": {"age group": "Approximately 41 years old (stated being 38 in October 2019, last response June 2022)", "gender": "Female (self-identifies as 'vagina owner,' references being a wife and mother)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "Part-time work from home (states 'I am only employed part-time and work fro... | [{"content": "AITA for kicking my cousin off of my sister\u2019s wedding Zoom call?\n\nMy [27M] older sister [30F] and her fianc\u00e9 [31M] were planning for over a year for their wedding to be this month. Obviously, they can\u2019t have the wedding as planned, but they still would like to get married, so they decided... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "1d84be7880a9573b", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac... |
NTA the THERAPIST is. That's absolutely not something that should be raised for the FIRST TIME in front of your WIFE. What on earth were they thinking?! You should have been able to work through this on your own before your gut reaction tainted the water. Gut reactions are very often slightly incorrect in extremely imp... | e7t57k | 5cd9050b2a4bb7f2 | 1,575,809,511 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has curly hair (described as fine, slippery, and poofy before proper care); gets hair cut by women working from home rather than salons; has not been to a salon in over a decade"}, "interests": ["Cu... | [{"content": "AITA for admitting I regret having children.\n\nMy wife and I are both 42 and in marriage counselling after our marriage basically went to shit after having kids (6 and 4 year old twins). A lot of issues and disagreements have come up in our marriage that have driven us apart and I have been working throu... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "5cd9050b2a4bb7f2", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#eeb800", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ed... |
Not only possible embarrassment, but at a public pool could've gotten her arrested. | d7yuot | a6b98ed14aa3a416 | 1,569,201,894 | 4 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Interpersonal conflict resolution and family dynamics, particularly in AITA scenarios", "Legal implications and consequences of actions, including CPS involvement and public ind... | [{"content": "Aita for wearing the \u201cjoke\u201d bikini my friend got me?\n\nSo it was my birthday couple months ago. Had a party. Got some gifts. My friend \u201cMandy\u201d for me a \u201csuper cute bikini\u201d. I liked it. Said thanks. She had ripped the tags off but whatever. \n\nAnyway. Went to the community p... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "a6b98ed14aa3a416", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Please do. Take pictures, video...and let us know how it went | cl8kbt | 3ce8287fdff61f84 | 1,564,774,860 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "41 years old (as of 2020)", "gender": "NA", "location": "United States (implied from context)", "occupation": "Works shifts that end at 7 am (mentioned 'working until 7 am')", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Parent with at least one school-age son"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and int... | [{"content": "AITA for filling a few faux Amazon packages with my dog's shit to teach the two theiving neighborhood kids who have been stealing my packages a lesson?\n\nThis has been going on for a few months now, ever since school let out. There are two girls in the neighborhood who are about 8-10 and the oldest about... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "3ce8287fdff61f84", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0... |
I speak German (minored at the college level, though I wouldn't say I'm fluent) and reading Dutch makes me feel like I'm having a stroke. | logumz | 97f12783c0a7602c | 1,613,882,155 | 5 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA (in same-sex relationship with girlfriend)", "location": "NA (mentions keeping house temperature, suggesting US-based)", "occupation": "NA (has completed college with German minor)", "nationality": "NA", "other": "In a same-sex relationship with girlfriend; was a stepc... | [{"content": "AITA for accidentally calling out a new colleague on lying about her language skills?\n\nLast week a new colleague \"Cathy\" (33f) started at my (25f) work place. She instantly stood out in the team, because she seems like someone who is very... loud and assertive? Two of my colleagues, me and Cathy were ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "97f12783c0a7602c", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Technically OP's only mess up was acknowledging they had done it to catch the roommate. Without that, it would be very difficult to sue. OP intended to drink the milk themselves, there's a bunch of different reasons to reuse the container, and the container itself was visibly marked. That stops it from being a trap. | hvcvtt | 1cf3bb5c0552d102 | 1,595,369,187 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female (likely, based on reference to 'my daughter's other mom' suggesting same-sex co-parenting relationship)", "location": "Texas, United States (explicitly mentions Texas custody laws, HEB, Bill Miller's BBQ)", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "American (based on Tex... | [{"content": "AITA for switching to regular milk to prove my lactose intolerant roommate keeps stealing from me?\n\nMe and 2 other guys share an apartment together and we split all the bills. The only thing we don\u2019t split costs on is groceries. Everyone\u2019s in charge of buying their own food and we don\u2019t t... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "1cf3bb5c0552d102", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
seconded here, it's definitely around 125 for that here in Los Angeles too, which is notoriously overpriced if you don't know where to look. | u3f6ka | 42a42a38d6bfd537 | 1,649,939,525 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "25 years old (as of June 2022)", "gender": "NA", "location": "Los Angeles, California", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has a mother born in 1960; references personal experiences with gender expression issues in youth ('I so wish I'd had a cool aunt like you when I was... | [{"content": "AITA for demanding my husband to pay me the $1000 dollars he spent behind my back?\n\nMy husband (33) and I (31) used to have a 2 income home but in 2020 we've lost our home and one of our incomes (his). We moved into a smaller apartment, had to sell many things and give up most of our \"costly\" habits.\... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "42a42a38d6bfd537", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
So what does she do every Monday?
NTA | s74e8q | e321ad5bb7a6a60e | 1,642,532,683 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Interpersonal conflict resolution and justice in AITA scenarios", "Family dynamics and favoritism issues, particularly supporting scapegoated family members like 'Joe' who was t... | [{"content": "AITA for refusing to watch my sister's stepkid and exposing her lies to her husband?\n\nMy f/21 sister Jess, f/30, is married and has a 5 yo stepson. her husband works full time and she is a sahm.\n\n\nEvery monday, she'd call my mom at 9am to get her to go over to her house and watch her stepkid for few ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "e321ad5bb7a6a60e", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
Oh. I thought that was a typo and she meant to say they were left "unread."
Well, then that's even worse. Shows that she didn't really give a damn, and that her partying was more important to her. Either that, or she was too drunk or stoned to really comprehend what was happening.
I mean, she came home and wondered ... | qh81za | fd1001a97d8dc752 | 1,635,421,312 | 5 | {"demographics": {"age group": "29-30 years old (was 28 in October 2021, last response February 2023)", "gender": "Female (explicitly stated 'I (28F)' in babysitting post response)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA (mentioned doing babysitting for extra cash on weekends, suggesting possible primary occupation elsew... | [{"content": "AITA for calling the police on my client?\n\nI (28F) do babysitting on the weekends to make some babysitting on the weekends to make extra cash. There is one family I definitely should've fazed out by now but the kids are cute and if I don't have another job, it's easy money. My issue is, the mom is never... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "fd1001a97d8dc752", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac... |
NTA. You will be if you marry this man though. His mother is marrying him and using you as the proxy, and he is fine with that. He will do whatever she wants at the click of her fingers and will set you on fire to keep her warm.
Don't salvage this relationship, absolutely torch it. There is nothing worth saving and yo... | xly6yk | 471b3006bf6be458 | 1,663,943,431 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family relationship dynamics and conflicts between spouses and in-laws", "Toxic relationship patterns and controlling behavior in marriages", "Boundary violations and privacy is... | [{"content": "AITA for my reaction when I learned that my fiance returned my wedding dress and replaced it with the one his mom picked for me?\n\nMy fiance M33, and I F28 are getting married in december. His mom is the intrusive type but she's nice overall and we....somewhat get along.\n\n\nI hate to admit that wedding... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "471b3006bf6be458", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
What gets me is her weird logic. She just thought that him being nice to Joe was a joke but being nice to her was flirting. There's no logic there and she's twisting things to suit her own agenda. I'm hoping Joe realizes how immature she is and moves on. | i1z11d | 90295dfa4b69c682 | 1,596,332,097 | 4 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Interpersonal conflict resolution and relationship dynamics, particularly in AITA scenarios", "Family relationship issues including sibling dynamics and parent-child conflicts",... | [{"content": "AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry?\n\nI \\[19M\\] just started dating a girl I really, really like a couple months ago. I was hanging out with my friend (I'll call Joe\\] who is also 19, and has a crush on this girl \"Sarah\" \\[18F\\]. Anyway, we were all hanging out and there were no... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "90295dfa4b69c682", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
I love horror movies but when I fly I pick movies that -dont- have upsetting Gore, if someone can see my screen. If the person next to me is asleep I'll watch it. I never account for people behind me tho. . how hard do you have to try to watch TV I. The row ahead?? | dxlxxk | 620e0d46838b4ad4 | 1,574,012,658 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "Female (references having boyfriends, mentions 'my boobies', discusses female-specific experiences)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Renter with gardening hobby, has a dog, experienced childhood separation trauma, has dated multiple p... | [{"content": "AITA for watching GoT on an airplane?\n\nTwo days ago, I was on a long-haul flight. I was sitting in an aisle seat. Since I haven't seen Games of Thrones yet, I was looking forward to binge watch the first season. I made myself comfortable and set up my tablet. An hour or two into watching, the woman two ... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "620e0d46838b4ad4", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
NTA. They shouldn't have asked. The fact that they realized after the fact that you hadn't told them the truth should have given them a chance to realize that they were TA for asking.
You don't owe anyone answers about your medical history. If these people are treating you poorly, it might be worth documenting with yo... | cw9hdj | 09504cf4ef2f08ea | 1,566,941,982 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family conflict resolution and interpersonal relationship dynamics, particularly in AITA contexts", "Legal rights and protections, frequently suggesting 'Please see an attorney'... | [{"content": "Aita for giving all of my coworkers a different reason for why I have missing fingers?\n\nI have three fingers missing on my dominant hand. It's fine. I can type and everything and even manage to tie my shoelaces most days (and on the days I can't, that's the dyspraxia). However, I won't deny that it look... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "09504cf4ef2f08ea", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "db... |
More like malicious compliance. | d1wohr | db05fcf2ee653e9c | 1,568,094,350 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "Late 30s to early 40s (stated 'approaching my 40s real quick' in July 2020)", "gender": "Female (references 'My family is filled with women and I'm the one breaking the cycle')", "location": "Lives in a 3rd world country (explicitly stated 'I live in a 3rd world country')", "occupation":... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my parents I won't drive my brother to school unless he is more hygienic because his smell literally makes me sick?\n\nI'm a high school senior and my brother is a high school freshman. I have a car that I bought with money I'd saved from work, and I pay my own gas. However my parents pay... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "db05fcf2ee653e9c", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
So sorry about this. It sounds to me like he could not cope with the responsibility for being a father or husband and was looking for a legitimate reason to leave where he could be the good guy as the wronged party. You deserve better. | j9ueq4 | 440e4267cea73680 | 1,602,534,827 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family conflict resolution and boundary-setting, as shown by engagement with posts about parents exploiting children financially", "Legal rights and intellectual property, demon... | [{"content": "UPDATE: AITA for not agreeing to a paternity test unless my husband goes to therapy?\n\nThis is an update to my other [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ixsv9j/aita_for_not_agreeing_to_a_paternity_test_unless/).\n\nThanks to everyone who commented on my original post. Unfortunately, th... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "440e4267cea73680", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa... |
Shame-by-proxy or [Vicarious Embarrassment](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vicarious_embarrassment) are also words for that. I have that particular quirk. This post has been killing me. Normally it just means I can't watch most sit-coms. | jx90uv | bc621832dcfed683 | 1,605,824,440 | 2 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Relationship dynamics and marriage issues, as evidenced by engagement with posts about divorce ('I left my husband'), proposals, and marital conflicts", "Family conflicts and pa... | [{"content": "AITA for leaving my husband in the grocery store because he started acting like a toddler?\n\nWe all go through phases and pick up annoying habits, and sometimes we just need our loved ones to gently tell us if we've picked up a particularly egregious habit.\n\nSometime in the last year, my husband has pi... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "bc621832dcfed683", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa... |
Oh, yes. The ol "ungrateful".
Usually said by those who have done the least to ever deserve gratitude. | okzq0t | 9c6272544f9c47af | 1,626,396,583 | 7 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family conflict dynamics, particularly involving inheritance disputes and parental favoritism", "Property rights and ownership disputes, especially regarding items with signific... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my step-dad and mom that they shouldn't be surprised at what my little brother said to them when they pulled a prank on him?\n\nI \\[20 F\\] am an older sister to my little (biological) brother (17 M) who finished high school last year. My little brother and I are really close. He says I'... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "9c6272544f9c47af", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
It's a terrible and flawed perspective. | flvmtn | 16582e90424f01e4 | 1,584,726,676 | 4 | {"demographics": {"age group": "40s-50s (mentions events from 20+ years ago regarding college, has four children, references to MIL who has passed away)", "gender": "Likely female (told 'girls don't do those things' regarding career choice, references to MIL suggest married to male)", "location": "NA", "occupation": "H... | [{"content": "AITA for proving to my roommate that her boyfriend keeps hitting on me?\n\nI\u2019m Sam, my roommates name is Lauren, and her boyfriends name is Mark. \n\nLauren and Mark have been dating for maybe four months. Mark always hits on me. Like always. As soon as Lauren walks away, Mark is laying it on thick w... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "16582e90424f01e4", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
The only way to save your job is go to your boss and tell him you’ve come to realize your wife’s behavior is abusive and you are leaving her and if she comes to the office she should be stopped at the front desk because she is not there with your permission.
And then actually start the process of leaving her.
Becau... | usc7y3 | ec4205ef5ddc57c4 | 1,652,887,859 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "Has personal experience as a child of a 'deadbeat dad'; likely a parent based on understanding of losing personal identity after having children; lives in a household that uses mental health care st... | [{"content": "AITA for watching and not doing anything while my wife was being kicked out of my company?\n\nHear me out, just read the whole text.\n\n\nSo my wife, F (26) and I, M (33) been married for 2 years. I admit that she is a hothead and can be a bit much especially when shes mad at me. I take responsibility for... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ec4205ef5ddc57c4", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... |
Right? Like this money would have gone to rent, food, clothes, so mom would have been able to save for retirement, education for OP, etc. That is why this was 100% ethical and correct and I am glad he did it.
Also- the dad? Needed to have CONSEQUENCES to being a shitty human being. This seems like a good conseque... | hyowye | 0d80b6f03807b452 | 1,595,860,831 | 3 | {"demographics": {"age group": "48-52 years old (explicitly states 'nearing 50 now')", "gender": "NA", "location": "United States (references US mortgage systems, credit practices, and recently purchased first home with xeriscaping suggesting arid climate region)", "occupation": "Professional/managerial role with hirin... | [{"content": "AITA for suing my biological father for unpaid child support?\n\nI don't have a relationship with my biological father. He left her when she got pregnant and never acknowledged that he had a child, always saying she was lying. She did prove paternity in court and got an order for child support. At the tim... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0d80b6f03807b452", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... |
> If she was truly sorry she would have written a letter or made a phone call expressing her remorse.
[...quoted text...]
And the post mentioned that she wants to offer financial support. No, she doesn't. If she wanted to offer financial support she would have offered it - either directly by calling or indirectly ... | n0fjhc | cc2de794269aa29e | 1,619,636,424 | 5 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family dynamics and interpersonal conflicts, particularly in AITA contexts", "Parenting issues and child welfare concerns, showing strong reactions to neglect", "Relationship bo... | [{"content": "Aita for refusing to attend an apology dinner after my mother in law called me a bad mother at my son's funeral?\n\nI lost my son to congenital heart disease and he did not survive the open heart surgery at the age of 1 year and 6 months. He was the greatest blessing I had in my life. Everyone kept tellin... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "cc2de794269aa29e", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "db... |
NTA. You sure this guy isn't now your soon to be ex husband? He's lucky you let him in the room at after that nonsense. | pqar3f | 9a94ca00416a7ca2 | 1,631,919,830 | 1 | {"demographics": {"age group": "NA", "gender": "NA", "location": "NA", "occupation": "NA", "nationality": "NA", "other": "NA"}, "interests": ["Family conflict resolution and interpersonal relationship dynamics, particularly in AITA subreddit contexts", "Wedding-related drama and conflicts between couples and their exte... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my Inlaws exactly where my husband was when I was in labor?\n\nI gave birth to my son 10 weeks ago. I went through exhausting period while I was nearing my due date. I was experiencing discomfort and wanted my husband by my side when I go into labor but he'd go out every night to hang out... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "9a94ca00416a7ca2", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac... |
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